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  • How to Create a Minimalist Budget to Manage Your Money

    For years I avoided budgeting because of how restrictive it felt. I didn’t want to feel guilty every time I spent my own money.

    Then I discovered the concept of a minimalist budget, and it was a total game-changer. Rather than spending money on things you don’t really care about, you can spend more money on the things you care most about. 

    You’re probably familiar with the concept of minimalism, but minimalist budgeting might be a mystery to you. It’s the same concept — You’re eliminating the non-essentials to make room for the things you truly value. 

    In this post, I’m explaining what a minimalist budget is and how you can create one to help you manage your money without the guilt and restriction that often comes with budgeting.

     

    How to Create a Minimalist Budget For Your Money

     

    What is a minimalist budget?

    Minimalism is the practice of eliminating the non-essentials from your life to make more room for the things you truly value. Most people use the term minimalism in reference to physical belongings, but you can apply the concept of minimalism to any part of your life. 

    I particularly like to use it as it applies to budgeting. A minimalist budget is one where you eliminate the non-essentials and the clutter from your budget to leave more money for what you value most. 

    A minimalist budget can help you to reduce your monthly expenses, simplify your financial life, and get out of debt. 

    It’s important to note that budget minimalism isn’t the same thing as frugality. A minimalist budget isn’t necessarily about spending less money. It’s about spending money on fewer things, so you’re only spending money on what you truly value.

     

    How do you create a minimalist budget?

    Like many things, creating a minimalist budget is easier said than done. I’m not going to lie – this doesn’t come naturally, and you’re going to be hesitant to make cuts to your budget. Here are a few ways to help you create a minimalist budget that actually works for you.

     

    IDENTIFY YOUR FINANCIAL VALUES AND PRIORITIES

    One of the key benefits of a minimalist budget is that it allows you the freedom to spend money on the things that are truly important to you. To do that, you first have to identify what your values are. 

    Identifying your values and priorities is an important piece of the puzzle. Consider how often you allow yourself to spend money on something because it’s a “necessity.” Maybe it’s hitting the bar with your friends or that new outfit you’ve been eyeing online. 

    Sure, those things might seem like necessities. But what about when you compare the importance of a new outfit to being able to afford to fly home for the holidays? The outfit doesn’t seem like such a necessity when you identify your real priorities, one of which is that annual trip home for Christmas. 

     

    MAKE A LIST OF ALL YOUR EXPENSES

    One of the first things I think everyone needs to do when it comes to setting up a new budget is to take stock of where they’re currently spending their money. To do this, you need to make a list of all of your expenses. 

    The easiest way to do this is to literally go back through your last three to six months of bank and credit card statements and document every single expense.

    Yes, it sounds exhausting. But I promise you’ll get so much clarity from this one exercise!

    I remember the first time I set up a budget for myself. I really had no idea how much I was spending on anything each month. I set up a budget and was honestly shocked to see how much I’d spent on take-out every month. It was a LOT.

    Not only is this step important to figure out where you’re spending too much, but it also helps you to identify how much you should expect to spend. It’s simply not realistic to start budgeting $200 per month for groceries when you’ve been spending $600. 

     

    ELIMINATE UNNECESSARY EXPENSES

    Alright, you knew this part was coming! Once you make a list of all of your expenses, it’s time to start cutting. Go through that list and figure out what you didn’t need to spend money on or what you could have spent less on.

    Some of these will be easy, as with my example of eating out. As soon as I saw how much I was spending, I knew I had to cut back. Others will be more difficult because lots of things seem like necessities. 

    If you’re struggling to make cuts, refer back to step 1, where you identified your values and priorities. If something doesn’t fit within your values, cut it! 

    For example, suppose you’re spending way too much on food, partially as a result of regularly grabbing lunch and dinner out. If friendship is one of your top priorities, then you probably don’t want to cut that weekly dinner with your best friend. 

    But you could reduce your food spending by bringing lunch to work instead of ordering out. You’ve managed to cut your food budget without sacrificing one of your most important values. 

    Here’s the good news: Only you get to decide what spending is necessary and what isn’t. You can decide you want to splurge on eating out or clothing, or anything else. Something that will seem unnecessary to someone else might feel necessary to you, and vice versa.

     

    USE A 50/20/30 BUDGET

    One of the toughest parts of setting up a new budget is knowing how much you should be spending on everything. After all, there’s no handbook that you get when you become an adult that tells you how much to spend on groceries. You just have to figure it out as you go. 

    One of the best ways I’ve found to break up the budget is to do so by percentages. More specifically, I recommend the 50/30/20 budget. 

    The 50/30/20 budget is a framework that says you should break down your take-home pay like this:

    • 50% for needs, such as housing, transportation, and groceries
    • 30% for wants, such as eating out, entertainment, and hobbies
    • 20% for savings and debt

    Remember, this framework is just a guide, and it’s not going to be right for everyone. For example, when Brandon and I had $150,000 of debt that we were paying off, we would spend more than 20% of our budget on savings and debt. 

     

    SIMPLIFY YOUR ACCOUNTS

    Listen, I know it’s popular advice in the personal finance community to have separate bank accounts for your different savings goals. At some point, though, it all becomes more work than it’s really worth. And if you have a good system in place, you don’t need a bunch of different bank accounts. 

    First, popular online banks such as Ally (the one I personalize use) allow you to set up “buckets” within a single savings account where you designate different cash for different purposes. 

    Additionally, budgeting apps such as You Need a Budget (YNAB) allow you to budget money for certain purposes. My banking app might say I have $10,000 in my savings account, but I can look at YNAB and see that I have $X budgeted for my emergency fund and $X budgeted for our new car. 

    Another popular piece of financial advice is to shop around for the savings account with the highest interest rate. But then what happens is you’re constantly obsessing over whether your current bank still has the highest rate and constantly moving your money as banks change their rates. 

    Here is some honesty for you — The difference between a 2% interest rate and a 1.75% interest rate on a savings account can literally come down to a few dollars, depending on how much money you have in the account. Just pick a bank with a high-yield savings account and let it go. 

    Finally, credit card hacking. Far too many people take out loads of credit cards with different types of rewards, and then only use their favorite. Credit card hacking might be effective if you do it right, but for most of us, it just adds extra unnecessary credit cards to our wallets. 

     

    AUTOMATE YOUR PAYMENTS

    I don’t know about you, but I have a lot of monthly bills. Every month I pay bills such as my mortgage, car insurance, utilities, phone bill, and more. We also pay off our credit card each month so we never carry a balance. 

    If I had to manually log onto my various accounts throughout the month to pay my bills, that would be a huge pain. In fact, I would probably forget once in a while, and that would cause a whole different set of problems. 

    These days, you can automate just about everything having to do with your finances. And I recommend that you do just that. Automate your bills, transfers to your savings account, and anything else you can. 

     

    GET OUT OF THE MONTHLY PAYMENT MINDSET

    One of my biggest pet peeves about life these days is that everything is based on a monthly payment. For some things, it makes sense — I’ll happily pay my Netflix bill every month. 

    But now, there are buy now, pay later apps that allow you to take out mini loans for large purchases. That way, instead of paying the total amount upfront, you’re paying it off over six months or so. 

    But here’s the thing. Those services encourage you to buy things you can’t afford. If you can’t swing the cost of the shoes in a single payment, you can’t afford the shoes. 

    These services also cost you more money. Nothing comes for free. If someone is lending you money, they’re getting something in return. Usually, it’s an astronomical amount of interest. And even if that’s not the case, they’re normalizing debt, which is not okay. 

    One important component of getting out of the monthly payment mindset is getting out of debt. It’s easy to think about your debt only in terms of what it costs you each month. 

    Your $5,000 credit card debt might only have a minimum payment of $85 per month. Or your $25,000 student loan might only have a minimum monthly payment of $150. And while those numbers don’t seem all that high, they’re costing you so much more than that. 

    Let’s do some painful math real quick. Suppose you have $5,000 of credit card debt with a minimum monthly payment of $85. If you only pay the monthly payment, you’ll pay over $7,900 in interest before you pay the card off. 

    $7,900!! 

    You’ll pay more in interest than you had in credit card debt in the first place. All because $85 per month seemed like a perfectly reasonable amount to pay to have credit card debt. 

    Here are some rules to live by when getting out of the monthly payment mindset:

    • Prioritize paying off existing debt
    • Don’t take on any additional debt
    • If you use a credit card, only spend what you have in your bank account and pay it off each month
    • If given the choice between a monthly subscription fee and an annual one, pay the annual fee. It’s almost always cheaper. 

     

    QUESTION EVERY PURCHASE

    When you’ve been spending money on the same things for years, it’s easy to see those things as necessities. One of the adjustments you have to make for a minimalist budget is to start questioning every purchase. 

    Minimalist budgeting is about spending money on fewer things, even if it means spending more on those items. It’s about focusing on quality over quantity. 

    Maybe you have a go-to pair of shoes that you buy, but the heels wear out in just a few months. This was me for a long time! I would always buy the same $25 pair of high heels for work. When the heels wore out a few months later, I’d replace them. I didn’t think anything of it because they were only $25. 

    It turned out that once I started spending more money per pair of shoes, I started spending less money overall. Instead of buying a budget pair that only lasted a few months, I could buy a more expensive pair that lasted infinitely longer. 

    Think about what expenses in your current budget you could replace with a higher-quality item. Instead of buying coffee out every day, what if you invested in a nice coffee or espresso machine? Instead of buying bottled water at the grocery store, what about buying a nice water filter? 

    The goal is to spend money on quality items that last longer. 

    Read More: How to Reduce Impulse Buying Once and For All

     

    SPEND LESS THAN YOU MAKE

    I know I said that budget minimalism isn’t necessarily about spending less money, and it’s not. But just like any budget, the most important rule is that you have to spend less than you make. 

    It’s easy to rely on credit cards and monthly payments that trick us into thinking we can afford more than we really can. But if the amount you’re swiping on your credit card each month is less than the amount on your paychecks, it’s time to change direction. 

     

    SCHEDULE REGULAR BUDGET MEETINGS

    I think we can all relate to a situation where we set up a brand new budget that we swear is going to change our lives, and then we forget about it in less time than it took us to make it. 

    I’ve gotten out of this habit by scheduling regular budget meetings for myself and my husband. We do one budget meeting around the first as I’m planning out the budget for the month and a quick check-in each time we get paid.

    Even if you’re the only person sticking to your budget, these check-ins are still important. Putting time on your calendar will ensure that you’re actually checking in with your budget and noting whether you’re still on track. 

    Read More: How to Create a Monthly Budget

     

    Final Thoughts

    Whether or not you practice minimalism with your physical belongings, a minimalist budget can be a great choice for anyone! Minimalist budgeting is all about eliminating the non-essentials from your budget to make room for the things that you value most. 

    While budgets often feel restrictive, the minimalist budget is all about freedom — freedom to spend on the things you truly value without letting the less important expenses get in the way.

  • The 14 Best Personal Finance Podcasts for Women

    When I decided to get serious about my finances, podcasts were one of the first places I turned to for information. I love learning from podcasts since I can listen as I’m driving, cleaning, or out walking the dog. 

    Over the years, I’ve found myself drawn to financial podcasts specifically created for women. It’s no secret that women have very different financial goals and financial needs.

    Luckily there’s no shortage today of amazing personal finance podcasts created by and for women. Here are a few of my favorites!

    If podcasts aren’t your style, you can check out these lists too:

     

    The 10 Best Personal Finance Podcasts for Women

     

    1. So Money

    So Money is one of the OG female money podcasts and was founded by Farnoosh Torabi. Farnoosh got her start as a financial reporter and wrote her first personal finance book in 2008. 

    Farnoosh talks about issues that are important to women, such as in her book, When She Makes More, where she talks about female breadwinners.

    Farnoosh started So Money in 2014 and, since then, has published over 1,000 episodes. Farnoosh does solo episodes where she answers your biggest money questions. She also interviews top authors and business owners about their financial journey and best money advice. She’s interviewed amazing women like Ariana Huffington, Gretchen Rubin, and Jen Sincero.

    Listen to So Money here. 

     

    2. Money Confidential

    Money Confidential is a podcast from Real Simple that’s hosted by the well-known personal finance writer Stefanie O’Connell Rodriquez.

    Stefanie herself is known for her work discussing the unique issues women face in the workplace and personal finances. This follows the same trend and explores some of the aspects of personal finance that people struggle with the most, including saving, spending, earning, investing, and more.

    In each episode, Stefanie starts by sharing an interview with a listener looking for advice on a particular topic. In the second part of the episode, Stefanie speaks with a financial expert who offers advice on that same topic.

    Each episode of Money Confidential has tangible advice you can implement right away, while also acknowledging the role that emotions play in money decisions.

    Listen to Money Confidential here.

     

    3. Money With Katie

    Katie Gattie Tassin has long been one of my favorite women talking about money on the internet, so you can imagine how excited I was when she started her podcast.

    Katie’s podcast, Money With Katie, is created for – as she refers to her audience – #RichGirls. In her podcast, she addresses topics that are important to women, including spending habits, smart investing, tax strategy, and more.

    One of the things I love about Katie’s work is her transition from solely tactical advice to a broader look at the challenges facing certain demographics and some of the societal issues holding us back. Don’t worry, though – she still shares plenty of the tactical tips.

    Listen to Money with Katie here.

     

    4. Financial Feminist

    The Financial Femenist podcast is created by Tori Dunlap, the founder of the Her First $100K community. She went viral in the personal finance community for saving her first $100K in her early twenties and has made it her mission to help women do the same. On her podcast and other social platforms, she educates women on the subject of personal finance to help them smash the patriarchy.

    On her podcast, Tori shares tactical advice on saving, investing, negotiating, and more. She also interviews experts about financial issues important to women and some of the societal difficulties women face in the workface (along with how to navigate them).

    Tori also has a new book out with the same name as her podcast.

    Listen to Financial Feminist here.

     

    5. Clever Girls Know

    The Clever Girls was one of the first finance blogs I really dove into when I decided to get serious about my finances. The Clever Girls founder Bola started the website after successfully saving $100,000 in just a few years and knowing that she had to teach other women how they could save money too. 

    The Clever Girls Know podcast covers all of the financial education and empowerment that women need to help them pay off debt, save money, start growing real wealth, and meet their big financial goals.

    Listen to Clever Girls Know here. 

     

    6. The Financial Confessions

    Though you might not be familiar with the Financial Confessions podcast, you’re almost certainly familiar with the company that runs it — The Financial Diet. 

    Founder Chelsea Fagan started The Financial Diet as a personal blog back in 2014. Since then, it has grown into a finance website that publishes great content every day aimed at helping women talk more openly and honestly about money. 

    So it comes as no surprise that Chelsea’s podcast, The Financial Confessions, is all about getting honest about money. On the show, Chelsea sits down to talk to influencers, celebrities, and financial experts in various industries to talk about all things money. They talk about the financial secrets of different industries, how your background influences the way you approach money, and the financial habits they recommend.

    Listen to The Financial Confessions here. 

     

    7. Inspired Budget Podcast

    I don’t remember when I first discussed Allison at Inspired Budget, but I’ve been following her for several years now. What first got my excited about her Instagram account was the real people’s budgets she shared. She literally shares a real person’s budget, as well as changes she recommends to help that person meet her goals.

    In 2021 Allision started her own podcast, The Inspired Budget Podcast, which helps women live their best life and reach their financial goals. Allison shares short but meaningful episodes on a particular financial topic. What I love about her content is that every podcast episode has a takeaway. In other words, every episode allows you to walk away with at least one improvement you can make to your finances right away.

    Listen to the Inspired Budget Podcast here.

     

    8. The Fairer Cents

    Founders Kara and Tanja started The Fairer Cents podcast to talk about all things money as it relates to women. Kara and Tanja are both successful in their own right. Kara is the founder of Bravely, a community that provides financial empowerment for women. Tanja wrote the book Work Optional, where she talks about her and her husband’s journey to early retirement. 

    On the podcast, Kara and Tanja dive into some of the stickier issues around money. They aim to serve those that have been underserved by financial media in the past, and cover issues like the wage gap and exploring how money affects relationships (and vice versa). 

    Listen to The Fairer Cents here.

     

    9. Journey to Launch

    Journey to Launch is a podcast hosted by Jamila, a Certified Financial Education Instructor who, along with her husband, is on her way to financial independence by the age of 40. 

    On her blog, Jamila shares the steps that she’s taken to save and invest well over $100K in just a couple of years. On the Journey to Launch podcast, Jamila teaches her audience how to set and create and create an actionable plan to go after their own goals.

    Listen to Journey to Launch here.

     

    10. Afford Anything

    Afford Anything founder Paula Pant started getting serious about money in a desperate attempt to avoid spending the rest of her life working 9-5 behind a desk. She built successful side hustles and saved enough money to quit her job and travel. 

    Since then, Paula has built a successful real estate business and shares her business and financial expertise on her podcast. Paula talks about being intentional in the way you spend your money. After all, you can afford anything, but not everything. 

    Listen to Afford Anything here.

     

    11. Money Girl Podcast

    The Money Girl podcast was started by Laura Adams in 2008. Like so many other finance bloggers and podcasters, Laura gained her expertise through her own personal finance journey of learning to pay off debt and get on a budget. 

    Since then, the show has gotten more than 40 million downloads and provides short and sweet personal finance tips to women. Laura’s podcast episodes are easily digestible, as many of them are just 15 minutes. Laura covers topics such as paying off debt, saving for retirement, and developing positive money habits.

    Listen to Money Girl here. 

     

    12. She Makes Money Moves

    The She Makes Money Moves podcast is put on by Glamour and iHeartRadio and hosted by Samantha Barry, Glamour’s editor-in-chief. In this podcast series, Barry talks about money as it relates to women. 

    She talks about topics such as student debt, divorce, and combining finances with your significant other with financial experts such as Farnoosh Torabi and Stefanie O’Connell, who also have podcast on this list.

    Listen to She Makes Money Moves here.

     

    13. HerMoney

    HerMoney was founded by Jean Chatzky, a personal finance reporter. Like so many women, she came to the realization that the traditional money media just wasn’t addressing the unique needs of women, so she started a website and podcast to address those needs herself. 

    HerMoney is all about improving the relationships that women have with money and leveling the playing field for financial security. 

    Listen to HerMoney here. 

     

    14. Mo’ Money Podcast

    Like so many other personal finance bloggers, Jessica Moorhouse started her blog in an effort to document her own personal finance journey and keep herself accountable. Seven years later, she’s an accredited financial counselor and provides coaching services to clients.

    On her Mo’ Money Podcast, Jessica talks to finance experts, celebrities, and authors to teach listeners about how to manage their money, make smarter money choices, earn more money, become debt-free, and live a more fulfilled and balanced life.

    Listen to the Mo’ Money Podcast here.

     

    Final Thoughts

    Podcasts have been one of my favorite ways to consume content, especially when I was just getting started with my own personal finance journey. 

    We know that the money needs of women are so unique. And luckily, there are plenty of podcasts out there specifically designed to help women take control of their money and meet their financial goals. 

  • How to Develop a Positive Money Mindset

    Have you ever been at a point in your life where you learn everything you can about personal finance in an effort to get your money shit in order, but you just can’t seem to turn things around?

    Believe it or not, your mindset might be the problem. The beliefs and feelings you have about money play a huge role in the decisions you make and what you make your money situation mean about you. 

    I’ve definitely struggled with a negative money mindset in my life. After my divorce, I spent a lot of time beating myself up about my debt, my lack of savings, and just my general lack of money expertise. 

    I can honestly say that changing my mindset around money has been just as instrumental in changing my circumstances as changing my money behavior was. 

    In this post, I’m sharing what a money mindset is and what steps you can take to turn yours around and develop a positive money mindset. 

     

    How to Develop a Positive Money Mindset

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    What is a money mindset?

    Your money mindset is made up of all of the beliefs and feelings you have about money. People have either a scarcity or abundance money mindset, though, to be honest, most of us probably fall somewhere in between. 

    You have a scarcity mindset if you believe there’s not enough money. You’re constantly telling yourself that money is tight and that you’ll never have enough to meet your goals. 

    If you have a scarcity mindset, you also probably beat yourself up about your money situation. When I struggled with a negative money mindset, I spent a lot of time beating myself up for taking on debt. 

    Not only do people with a scarcity mindset have negative thoughts about money, but they also often have negative thoughts about people who do have money. They might think that wealthy people aren’t good people. They probably also think that the more money someone else has, the less there is for the rest of us. 

    You have an abundance mindset if you believe that there’s plenty of money to go around. You trust that even if you spend the money you have now, more will come around. Everything will be okay. 

    When you have an abundance mindset, you don’t make money mean more than it does. You don’t make your money mistakes mean anything about you, just like you don’t make someone else’s money mean anything about them. 

     

    How to have an abundant money mindset

    IDENTIFY YOUR CURRENT MONEY BELIEFS

    Whether you realize it or not, you already have money beliefs that influence the way you think about money and the world. These beliefs might be a result of something your parents taught you during your childhood. 

    Think about phrases such as “money doesn’t grow on trees.” Most of us have heard it, partially because most of our parents probably said it. But have you ever stopped to think that your parents repeatedly telling you that actually taught you that money is finite and that there’s never going to be enough?

    Or maybe your parents told you that “money is the root of all evil.” If your parents drilled that into your head as a kid, you’re probably going to have some weird mental blocks about earning a lot of money. 

    You probably also have money beliefs based on your past experiences. Have you ever made a really stupid money mistake and then, for years afterward, tell yourself that you’re bad with money? 

    What that really does is convince you that you’re bad with money. And far too many people develop that belief without ever trying to convince themselves otherwise. 

    If you’re struggling to identify what your current money thoughts are, write it out. Sit down with a notebook and just spend twenty minutes writing down everything you can think of about money. Eventually, something is going to come up. 

    Once you’ve identified what your current money beliefs are, you’ll start to identify where those beliefs came from. More importantly, you’ll see that you can change your beliefs.

     

    UNDERSTAND THAT MONEY IS NEUTRAL

    One of the most important parts of changing your current negative money mindset to a positive one is recognizing that money is neutral. 

    So many people have a belief that money is evil or that a lack of money is holding them back. Money isn’t evil, and it isn’t out to get you. It has no value until we give it value. It has no meaning until you give it meaning. 

    I say all of this because a lot of people blame their money (or lack thereof) or their debt for the problems in their lives. The sooner you can come to terms with the fact that money isn’t out to get you, the sooner you’ll be able to change your mindset around it. 

     

    FOCUS ON BEING GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE

    It’s easy to focus on all the things that are going wrong in your life. Regardless of your financial situation, you’re probably more likely to focus on the bad than the good. 

    You might spend a lot of time worrying about your debt or about going over budget on your grocery shopping. Yet you give almost no thought to the good things that your money has done for you. 

    Listen, it’s easy to look at your next-door neighbor with the luxury car or your friend with the designer clothes and feel bad about your life. But it might put things into perspective to remember that a huge portion of the world’s population is living in poverty. And if you live in a developed country, you’re luckier than most. 

    Whatever your financial situation, find ways to be grateful for it. Yes, even the things that are easy to complain about. Here are a few examples:

    • I’m grateful for my debt because it pushed me to get serious about personal finance
    • I’m grateful that I make more money in my current job than I did in my last one
    • I’m grateful knowing I’ll be okay even though I went over my grocery budget

    Each of those thoughts takes something that could be perceived as negative (debt, a moderate income, going over budget) and spins it in a positive light. 

    I guarantee that if you think hard enough, you’ll realize you have a lot to be grateful for. I know that for myself, I’m most grateful for the goals my money allows me to have. My husband and I are able to make plans to travel full-time and have adventures because of our financial situation. 

     

    LEARN TO LOVE YOUR MONEY

    People are weird about money. These days it’s still a fairly taboo topic. Don’t believe me? Next time you’re talking to someone, tell them that you love money and see how they react.

    Here’s the thing, though — You can’t expect to have a positive money mindset if you don’t have positive feelings about your money. 

    Part of the reason we feel weird about loving our money is that it’s not a topic people normally talk about. It’s weird for me to say that I love making a lot of money because I’m not supposed to tell people that I make a lot of money. 

    Loving money is also a bit taboo because, let’s be honest, it probably makes us seem like we’re selfish or materialistic or bragging. There’s an element of guilt that comes with it. 

    If this is what’s holding you back, just remember that you can be generous and giving and still love your money. In fact, one great reason to love your money is that it allows you to help others. 

    There are lots of reasons to love your money. You can love your money:

    • For the security it provides
    • For the goals it will help you to reach
    • For the good it will allow you to do in the world

     

    GET BETTER WITH MONEY

    I realize that this post is supposed to be about money mindset and not actionable budgeting advice. But one factor that’s had the biggest impact on my money mindset is getting better with money.

    You see, I used to have a really negative money mindset. Part of this was a result of the fact that I had zero confidence when it came to money. And my lack of confidence was a result of the fact that I just wasn’t good with money. 

    For years I thought I had my financial shit together. It turned out that I was just married to someone who had his financial shit together, and he managed the money. When we got divorced, and I was on my own, it became abundantly clear that I had no idea what the heck I was doing. 

    For the next few years, I threw myself into learning everything I could about managing money. As my knowledge of finance increased, so did my confidence when it came to money. And as my confidence increased, my money mindset got better. 

    The best advice I have for getting started with personal finance is to do what I did — Read personal finance books and blogs. Here are a few to get you started:

     

    SET FINANCIAL GOALS

    One of the negative money beliefs that many people have is that they’ll never be able to do all of the things they want to do. They won’t be able to go on that dream vacation or buy that dream house because they won’t have enough money. And because they believe it to be true, they don’t really take steps to change it. 

    I can tell you right now that if you don’t actually take steps to reach your financial goals, you won’t reach them. There will never come a day when you just magically have enough money in your bank account to achieve your financial goal. 

    When you actually take steps to set and go after goals, you start making progress on them. And as you start making progress on them, your money mindset gets better and better because you realize what is possible. It’s a constant cycle, and you get to decide which direction it goes!

    If you want to get started with setting financial goals but aren’t sure how, check out my guide on how to set goals and plan your best year ever. 

     

    CREATE A MONEY MANTRA

    If you need to change your beliefs about money but can’t quite get there, a money mantra is what you need. I know the idea of a mantra sounds a little woo-woo and not like something that actually works, but it really does. 

    First things first, what the heck is a money mantra?

    A money mantra (aka affirmation) is a short but powerful statement that you repeat every single day (preferably multiple times per day) until you believe it. 

    Your mantra can be something written on a post-it at your desk that you say out loud. I prefer to write mine in my journal every day. 

    Here are a few mantras you can try if you aren’t sure where to start:

    • Money flows easily to me
    • Making money is easy
    • There is always more than enough money
    • I am financially free

    The first time you repeat your money mantra, you’re probably going to feel a bit ridiculous. After all, you’re probably not going to believe it right away. 

    A while back, I started working on a mantra saying I can make as much money in my business as I want. At first, it felt so clearly false. But now that I’ve been practicing it for a while, I actually believe it. 

     

    READ A MONEY MINDSET BOOK

    One of my favorite ways to learn about money has been by reading books. Learning about money mindset was no exception.

    I loved Jen Sincero’s first badass book, You Are a Badass. So when I saw she had a money mindset book coming out, I knew I had to read it. 

    In You Are a Badass at Making Money, Sincero shares her personal money journey. She talks about overcoming her bad money habits and her negative money mindset.

    This pulled me in right away because so many of the negative thoughts about money that Sincero said had held her back are thoughts I have had about money too.

    I love that she wrote the book from her own personal experience, and I genuinely think everyone can find something in this book that really hits home with them, from identifying the money beliefs that are holding you back to transforming your relationship with money.

    Finally, I just love Sincero’s writing style and sense of humor, which made it really easy to read.

    Click here to grab a copy of You Are a Badass at Making Money.

     

    Final Thoughts

    Having a negative money mindset is so hard to overcome, in large part because a lot of us don’t even realize what our money mindset is.

    The things that we believe about money are a direct result of the experiences we’ve had so far. And unless you want your future to replicate your past, it’s time to make some mindset changes. 

    I know that honing in on my mindset and learning to have an abundant money mindset has been seriously life-changing.

    Changing my mindset has helped me to embrace my debt while also paying it off faster than I ever would have thought. It’s helped me to drastically increase my income. Finally, it’s taught me to completely change the way I look at my life and my money. 

    I know that the tips in this blog post can do the same for you!

  • How to Build an Emergency Fund & How Much You Should Save

    There were way too many years when I didn’t realize just how important an emergency fund was. I made enough money to pay my bills every month. But when an unexpected expense came up, I’d have to put it on a credit card or pull money from a different spending category. 

    Having a fully-funded emergency in place is seriously life-changing. It provides so much peace of mind and helps ensure that little bumps in the road don’t rock your financial world. 

    In this post, you’ll learn what an emergency fund is, how much you should have in your emergency fund, and how you can save enough money for an emergency fund. 

     

    How to Build an Emergency Fund & How Much You Should Save

     

    What is an emergency fund?

    An emergency fund, just like the name suggests, is a chunk of money that you set aside for an unexpected financial emergency. 

    Your emergency fund has two primary purposes. First, it can help to pay for unexpected one-off expenses that you don’t have room for in your budget. For example, if your car breaks down or you have an unexpected medical bill, your emergency fund can help to pay for it.

    The other use for an emergency fund is a job loss. If you lose your job, your emergency fund can serve as a replacement to your income until you have a new job.

     

    How much emergency fund should I have?

    There’s a lot of debate as to how much you should have in your emergency fund. If you follow Dave Ramsey’s baby steps, he recommends an emergency fund of $1,000 until you pay off all your debt. Once your debt is gone, then he recommends that you save an emergency fund of 3-6 months worth of expenses. 

    Depending on how much debt you have, I don’t think $1,000 is nearly enough. When my husband and I got married, we were working to pay off about $150K of debt. We knew it would take us several years to get there, and I wouldn’t have felt comfortable going years with only $1,000 in our emergency fund. 

    My comfort level before paying off debt is about three months of expenses in our emergency fund. I feel confident that in our career fields, we’d be able to at least partially replace our income in that time. 

    Long term, I recommend an even larger emergency fund. I feel most comfortable with six months of expenses set aside for an emergency.

    There are other things to take into consideration when it comes to the size of your emergency fund. If you’re single, you might want more of an emergency fund than someone in a two-income household who has another person to rely on in the case of a job loss. Similarly, someone who has children to support might feel most comfortable with a larger emergency fund than someone with no one relying on them financially.

    Read More: Is it Better to Pay Off Debt or Save Money First?

    People are tempted to underestimate how much they need in their emergency fun while paying off debt so as to avoid paying more in interest. However, the lack of an emergency fund can actually end up being more expensive.

    Imagine you don’t have an emergency fund and end up needing a $1,000 car repair. Now you have to put the repair on your credit card, and in addition to paying the initial $1,000, you also have to pay the high credit card interest rate until you can pay off the balance.

     

    Where should you keep your emergency fund?

    It’s best to keep your emergency fund somewhere easily accessible and highly liquid. If an unexpected expense comes up, you want to be able to get to your money as quickly as possible.

    A high-yield savings account is a great option. You’ll keep your money safe while earning a little extra money on interest. I personally recommend Ally Bank, but there are plenty of options that pay rates far higher than a traditional bank.

    If you’re tempted to invest your emergency fund in the market, I highly recommend against it. The market can be volatile, and the last thing you want is for the stock market to drop at the same time you need to use your emergency fund. 

     

    How do I build an emergency fund?

    STEP 1: DECIDE HOW MUCH YOU WANT TO SAVE

    I talked about how much I recommend having in your emergency fund. But you’re the only one who can ultimately decide how much you’ll need. Once you know how much you want to save, you can figure out how long it will take you to get there. 

     

    STEP 2: FIGURE OUT HOW MUCH YOU CAN SAVE MONTHLY

    This step is where budgeting comes in. If you don’t know how much you can save every month for your emergency fund, it’s probably because you don’t have a firm grasp on your monthly budget. Let’s change that!

    If you don’t already have a budget set up, check out my guide on setting up a monthly budget. 

    If you already have a budget in place but don’t have extra money left over to put toward your emergency fund, go through and figure out where you can make cuts.

    You may currently be making extra debt payments, and that might be a good place to cut until your emergency fund is in place. Otherwise, find some other discretionary spending such as eating out or a vacation fund you can divert budget money from. 

     

    STEP 3: MAKE IT AUTOMATIC

    I used to tell myself that I would save whatever money I had left at the end of every month after my expenses. And time after time, the end of the month would roll around, and I would have spent everything. There would be nothing left to put into savings. 

    Finally, I changed my strategy. I set up an automatic payment to go through the day after my paycheck hit my bank account every month. Then I could only spend what I had left after savings. 

    It’s easy to have the best of intentions when it comes to saving. But I think we can all relate to a situation where we spend more than we plan to. Setting up an automatic transfer to savings is the best way to make sure it happens every month. 

    Read More: 6 Easy Ways to Automate Your Finances

     

    STEP 4: SAVE ANY WINDFALLS

    I don’t know about you, but I love those cash windfalls that come in throughout the year. Sometimes it’s a tax return (or finding out you owe less in taxes than you had saved). It could also be a little bonus or a raise at work. 

    Another windfall many people don’t think about is that extra paycheck some people get a couple of months per year. If you get paid every other week, then there are actually two months per year where you get three paychecks instead of two. I always look forward to those months, as my husband gets those extra paychecks. 

    While it might be tempting to spend those extra windfalls on something fun, there are probably better uses for them. If you’re still saving your emergency fund, then throw those windfalls in there. Once your emergency fund is fully funded, then you can throw those windfalls toward a different financial goal! 

     

    STEP 5: FIND WAYS TO EARN EXTRA MONEY

    At some point, there’s only so much you can cut from your budget. Even if you’re as frugal as can be, the money can only go so far. That’s where extra money comes in. 

    I love having a side hustle. I started my blog years ago and worked on it alongside a full-time job. A few years later, I added freelance writing to the mix. But in the years when I was really building up my financial health, that extra income was a life saver.

    The good news, it’s super easy to earn extra money every month. Some of my favorite side hustle ideas are super easy to get started and can earn you $1,000 (or more) every single month.

     

    STEP 6: REEVALUATE AND REBUILD

    Your financial needs are going to change a lot during your life. You might decide today that $5,000 is plenty for an emergency fund for you. But fast-forward a few years, and your life might look totally different. 

    In that case, you’ll need to reevaluate whether your current emergency fund is still sufficient. In general, the higher your monthly expenses get, the bigger your emergency fund will need to be. 

    The other thing to keep in mind is that something you’ll need to rebuild your emergency fund. Emergencies are bound to pop up sometimes — that’s what the fund is for!

    When you find yourself needing to spend some of that money, be sure to build it back up afterward. It might be that it was a relatively small expense, and you can get the fund back up in a month or two.

    In the case of a job loss where you end up draining the entire fund, it’s going to take you a lot longer to get it back to where it was. 

    Don’t get down on yourself if that happens — that’s what the fund is for! Your life will probably be a constant back and forth of building up the fund and then having to use it. 

     

    Final Thoughts

    I think we can all agree that unexpected financial emergencies suck. But they’re also inevitable and something we should all be prepared for. 

    If you use the tips in this post to boost your emergency fund, you’ll have a lot more peace of mind next time one of those unexpected costs rolls around. 

  • Is it Better to Pay Off Debt or Save Money First?

    One of the questions I am asked most often is whether it’s better to pay off debt or save money first. And honestly, it wasn’t all that long ago that I was the one struggling with this dilemma. 

    When I was working to rebuild my finances, I read article after article that told said things like:

    • “Put all of your disposable income toward debt!”
    • “Build an emergency fund to fund 3-6 months of bills!”
    • “Max out your 401(k) and your Roth IRA!”

    As someone who was living paycheck to paycheck, I was crushed. How the hell was I supposed to do any of those things (let alone all three of them) when I could barely pay my bills every month? 

    Because of the amount of anxiety I had around this question, it honestly comes as no surprise that so many people are also struggling with it. 

    In this post, I’m answering that age-old question we’ve all had at one point or another. Which should you do first: pay off debt or save money?

     

    Is It Better to Pay Off Debt or Save Money First?

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    Remember, it’s not one or the other

    First things first, you don’t have to choose between just saving money or just paying off debt. You can do BOTH. 

    I’m not saying it’s going to be easy. In fact, I can guarantee you it’s going to be tough. 

    The first thing you’re going to need to do is to take stock of where you’re at. First, take some time to figure out exactly how much debt you have. It sounds obvious, but I know far too many people who just blindly make their minimum payments every month without really paying attention to how much they owe. 

    My favorite tool to gather all of my debt information in one place is Undebt.it. This tool allows you to add and manage all of your debt accounts, among other functions that we’ll cover later on.

    The other thing you need to consider is your life situation. How much money do you have coming in? How much money do you have in savings? What are your monthly expenses? All of these factors will help you choose between prioritizing saving money or paying off debt.

     

    Start by building your emergency fund

    Regardless of whether you have debt and how much debt you have, building your emergency fund should be your very first goal. How much you actually need in your emergency fund comes down to your comfort level, among other life factors. 

    To figure out how much of an emergency fund you need, really think carefully about where you are in your life and what you need out of an emergency fund.

    Today my husband and I both bring in income (I’m self-employed, and he has a good job). Because we share expenses, I know that if I were to lose all of my freelance income tomorrow, we’d be able to get by for a while on his income. 

    But just a few years ago, it was a very different story. A few years ago, I was single, living alone, and barely making ends meet. If I had lost my job during that time, it would have immediately been an emergency.

    Your life situation will tell you a lot about how much money you should have in savings. If you’ve got kids or are a one-income family, you’ll need a lot more of a cushion. 

    Alright, so how much should you save in your emergency fund?

    Dave Ramsey recommends putting $1,000 in your emergency fund before you aggressively pay off debt. I highly recommend more than that. There are plenty of house or car repairs that cost more than $1,000 on their own. And what about job loss? For most of us, $1,000 isn’t even enough to get by for one month. 

    As I said, how much you should actually save depends entirely on your lifestyle. I’m pretty risk-averse, so I would shoot for a minimum of a few thousand dollars. 

    Another thing to remember is that your emergency fund and your debt are totally intertwined. Nearly half of families don’t have enough to cover a $400 emergency. So when those emergencies do inevitably pop up, those families are going further into debt to pay for them.

    Having an emergency fund doesn’t prevent you from paying off your debt — It helps to avoid debt!

    Read More: How to Build an Emergency Fund & How Much You Should Save

     

    Take advantage of an employer 401(k) match

    Just like there’s a bare minimum for what you should save for your emergency fund, I also think there’s a minimum for what you should save for retirement.

    Listen, I know how hard it is to care about retirement when you’re in your early twenties. I was lucky enough to get a job out of college that had mandatory pension contributions, so I didn’t have the opportunity to opt-out. And let me tell you, I’m so grateful that was the case. 

    If you start saving for retirement in your forties, it’s going to seem overwhelming. If you start saving in your twenties, it’s going to be a hell of a lot easier and more painless.

    When it comes to saving for retirement, the most important factor you should look at first is whether your employer offers a match on your 401(k). If they do, take advantage of it. This is literally free money. Try to contribute as much as they’ll match. 

    If you can do more than that, that’s great. But if you’ve got a lot of debt to tackle, I would hit your employer match and then turn your attention to the debt. 

     

    Make a plan to pay off your debt

    If you’re going to prioritize paying off your debt, you need to have a plan in place. And no, making the minimum payment on all of your debts every month doesn’t count as having a plan.

    As I’ve mentioned on this blog before, my husband and I got married with six figures of debt (around $150,000 to be more specific). 

    Had we continued to make all of our minimum payments every month, we would have been paying off that debt for practically the rest of our lives. And after putting a plan in place to pay it off faster? We moved that timeline up by decades. 

    As you can see, there’s a pretty big difference there, and it’s all because we made a plan.

    To make our debt payoff plan, we used the tool Undebt.it.

    The first thing you’ll do when you sign up for Undebt.it is to add all of your debt accounts. This means consumer debt, car loans, student loans, and any other debt you’re carrying. 

    Next, Undebt.it will prompt you to decide in what order you want to prioritize your debts. Essentially they’re asking if you want to do a debt snowball (where you prioritize the lowest debt amount) or the debt avalanche (where you prioritize the highest interest rates).

    The debt snowball is popular with lots of people working to pay off their debt. I understand, as paying off small debts can give you a lot of motivation. If that’s what you need, go for it. 

    We chose to go with the debt avalanche instead. Because of the amount of debt we have, paying off the high-interest debt first is going to save us tens of thousands of dollars in interest. 

    Once you’ve added all of your debts and have chosen what order you want to tackle them in, Undebt.it is going to ask you how much money you want to put toward debt every month. 

    This part is challenging and totally comes down to what fits within your budget. Try to find a number that is quite a bit more than just your minimum payments but still low enough that you have money to save and money to live a little. 

    I know there are plenty of people who think you shouldn’t spend any fun money until you pay off debt. I 100% don’t fall into that camp. If it’s going to take me years to pay off debt, my husband and I are going to go out to eat and go see our favorite bands while we’re at it. My opinion is that you should still set aside some money for things that bring you joy. 

    Once you’ve got your number, you’re done! At this point, Undebt.it will tell you when you’re scheduled to pay off your debt. You’ll have to go in monthly and manually enter the payments you’ve made. As an alternative, though, you can sync Undebt.it with the budget app You Need a Budget (YNAB), and it will automatically keep up to date with your balances. 

     

    Make a commitment not to go back into debt

    Paying off debt is glorious. We’ve got a long way to go before we’re debt-free, but even paying off just one debt is an amazing feeling.

    But paying off the debt isn’t enough. 

    For all of this to work, you also have to commit to yourself to never go back into debt (outside of a mortgage). 

    In some cases, this will be easy. Most of us aren’t planning to take on more student loan debt after we pay ours off. 

    But what about credit cards? Can you commit to never putting something on a credit card if you don’t already have the money to pay it off?

    Can you commit to saving up to purchase cars in cash rather than taking out a loan? 

    After paying on my car loan for years, I was determined that we’d purchase our next car in cash. It might not be the nicest car, but it feels pretty darn good not to be making payments on it. 

     

    Once the debt is gone, go all-in on saving

    When you get to this point, you’ve done the following:

    • Build an emergency fund
    • Put enough into your 401(k) to get your employer match
    • Paid off all of your debt (YAY!)

    For many people, it’s probably tempting to spend that extra money. It’s like getting a huge raise, right? And while I totally agree that becoming debt-free means you can start using some of that money on wants instead of needs. 

    But this is also the time to up your savings game in a big way. 

    First, this means building a hefty job-loss fund for yourself. Aim for six months of expenses in case you and/or your spouse lose your jobs. 

    Now that you have more disposable income, you can also start putting more into your retirement account. The younger you start saving for retirement, the more you can take advantage of that compound interest! 

     

    Final Thoughts

    I know so many people stress out about whether they should be saving first or paying off debt. I struggled with this dilemma for years. 

    The good news is that you can do BOTH.

    It is possible to save a solid emergency fund to help you out in a tough situation, while also slaying your debt. 

  • The Best Personal Finance Blogs for Women

    I first started reading female personal finance blogs many years ago out of absolute necessity. 

    I had recently gone through a divorce and was pretty much at financial rock bottom. I decided it was time to educate myself, so I started reading personal finance blogs to learn everything I could about managing my money. 

    The blogs I found most helpful were the ones specifically geared toward women. Women have entirely unique financial needs, and I love reading sites that cater to them. 

    Over the past few years, I’ve found so many amazing personal finance blogs. I was even inspired to rebrand my own website into a personal finance blog.

    In this post, I’m sharing some of my absolute favorite female finance blogs to help you take control of your money and reach your financial goals. 

     

    The Best Personal Finance Blogs for Women

     

    The Financial Diet

    The Financial Diet is one of the first blogs I found when I started diving into personal finance content. The Financial Diet started as a personal blog years ago, but it’s grown into a daily online magazine sharing personal finance content for women. 

    One of my favorite things about The Financial Diet is that because they have a large crew of writers, you get many different perspectives. 

    Not only does The Financial Diet post daily blog content, but the founder also has a podcast where she interviews influencers and money experts about financial topics. 

     

    Her First $100K

    Her First $100K is one of the most well-known personal finance blogs on the internet, and its content is primarily aimed at women.

    The creator, Tori Dunlap, saved her first $100k by her mid-twenties and uses her blog to help other women do the same. Along the way, she also shares advice to help women overcome some of the obstacles standing in their way of financial freedom.

    If you want to build wealth while fighting the patriarchy, Her First $100K is the blog for you.

     

    Mixed Up Money

    Alyssa at Mixed Up Money is one of my favorite personal finance creators. I found her through her Instagram account, but soon started following were blog as well.

    Like many women, Alyssa started her personal finance blog from her own financial journey of paying off debt, increasing her income, and reaching a place where she feels confident with her money.

    On her blog, she shares just about every topic relevant to women and money, including budgeting, saving, investing, career, and more.

    Another thing I love about following Alyssa is that she does weekly polls on her Instagram account so you can see how your peers feel about certain topics and what actions other people are taking with their finances.

     

    BravelyGo

    BravelyGo is a personal finance blog created by money coach and online personal finance creator Kara. On her blog, Kara teaches you how to make sustainable money choices that benefit not only you but also the world.

    Kara talks about many personal finance topics for women, including sustainable investing, budgeting, paying off debt, managing money with a partner, and more.

    Kara also has an Instagram account where she does deep dives into relevant events happening in the financial world.

     

    Making Sense of Cents

    Making Sense of Cents is one of the biggest female personal finance blogs out there. Michelle started the blog years ago as a way to document her own money journey, but it’s turned into a lot more than that. Now it’s one of the most popular blogs out there. 

    One thing I really love about this blog is that despite how much Michelle has grown her site (she makes six figures per month), she still keeps it personal and makes it feel like she’s talking directly to her readers. 

    Not only does Michelle share personal finance advice, but she also helps to teach others to start and grow their own blogs. 

     

    Clever Girl Finance

    Clever Girl Finance is a personal finance blog for women. The blog was started by Bola, who started the site to share her financial expertise. Bola is a Certified Financial Education Instructor who was able to save six figures in just three years. 

    I love that the information that Bola shares is directed at women, who have entirely unique financial needs. Not only does the site share financial blog posts, but Bola also offers financial courses and a podcast. 

     

    HerMoney

    Rather than being a personal finance blog from someone sharing their money story, HerMoney is a digital media company that shares personal finance content for women. 

    HerMoney was started by Jean Chatzky, someone who spent two decades reporting on finance topics. The site focuses on improving the relationships women have with money. 

     

    Ellevest

    You may know Ellevest as the online investing platform specifically designed for women, but it’s also home to the Ellevest Magazine where you’ll find helpful articles about personal finance.

    Given that Ellevest is an investment platform, many of the articles are about investing. However, they also have articles about other topics in finance, including succeeding in your career.

    One of the things I love most about the Ellevest platform is that it understands that women have unique financial needs, and so it creates tools and articles to address that.

     

    Stefanie O’Connell

    Stefanie O’Connell has become one of my go-to bloggers for personal finance information specific to women. Stefanie, like so many twenty-somethings, found herself living a life she couldn’t really afford.

    One of the things that most drew me to Stefanie’s website is that she doesn’t teach you how to pinch every penny you can. Instead, she helps women increase their income and manage their money so that they don’t have to sacrifice the lifestyle they want.

     

    MyFabFinance

    Tonya of MyFabFinance created her personal finance blog because, like so many other women, she knows what it feels like to feel depressed and ashamed about money.

    And because she’s been in a place where she didn’t have control of her finances, she – as a nationally recognized millennial money expert – wants to help other women get out of that place.

    On Tonya’s blog, she talks about many personal finance topics important to women, including entrepreneurship, homebuying, paying off debt, and more.

     

    The Millennial Money Woman

    Fiona of The Millennial Money Woman shares financial strategies to help you optimize your financial life and move toward financial freedom.

    Fiona has a master’s degree in personal financial planning, which gives plenty of credibility to her content. She shares articles about frugal living, passive income, investing, and more.

     

    Healthy Rich

    Healthy Rich is a personal finance blog that offers inclusive financial education.

    Unlike other personal finance blogs that just share tactical tips, Dana and Healthy Rich share advice that helps you get in touch with your relationship with your money. She recognizes that without a health relationship with money, it’s impossible to accomplish everything else.

    Healthy Rich address the sometimes-toxic budget culture and teaches women to approach their finances from a place of understanding and grace rather than judgment and purely looking at the numbers.

     

    Fitnancials

    One thing I love about female finance blogs is that so many of them share the story of women who were going through a hard time in their lives and were able to turn things around. 

    On Fitnancials, Alexis shares how she turned her life around when she was struggling financially. Alexis teachers her readers about how to manage their money, as well as how to increase their income. 

     

    Afford Anything

    Afford Anything is a personal finance blog written by a woman who, like so many others, had a desire to ditch her 9-5 job for a life with more freedom. 

    Paula, the writer behind the blog, learned everything she could about personal finance. She learned to save more money while also boosting her income. 

    As someone who recently made the leap from employee to self-employed, Paula’s blog has offered great advice and been a confidence booster when I worried about whether this lifestyle was really possible for me. 

     

    And Then We Saved

    And Then We Saved is a blog that focuses on helping women to get out of debt fast. Anna started the blog as a way to share her own debt payoff journey and now helps other women with theirs. 

    In addition to sharing blog posts about paying off debt, Anna also has a book and boot camp course both dedicated to the same mission. 

    As someone who’s currently in the middle of a pretty huge debt-free journey, I’ve really appreciated what Anna has to offer! 

     

    Women Who Money

    Women Who Money is a personal finance blog that was started by women for women. The site was started by two women who reached financial independence and left their full-time jobs to help women with their money.

    This blog focuses on issues that women want to hear about including making career decisions or starting a business, improving your financial situation, and saving for retirement. 

     

    Financial Best Life

    There are plenty of personal finance experts out there who focus on teaching you to spend less money and pinch your pennies. I always appreciate the ones who focus on helping women to afford the lives they actually want. 

    On her blog Financial Best Life, Lauren teaches women how to control their money, increase their income, and reach their financial goals. 

     

    Erin Gobler

    The primary goal of this article is to help you discover new personal finance blogs for women. But I would be remiss if I didn’t also mention my own personal finance blog, Erin Gobler.

    My personal finance journey started in 2017 when I found myself divorced and starting from square one financially.

    Since then, I’ve learned everything I could about finance – including getting a certificate in financial planning, paid off tens of thousands of dollars in debt, started a freelance writing business, traveled the country, and bought my dream home with my new husband.

    Whether you’re looking for advice on budgeting, saving, investing, growing your income, or improving your relationship with money, you’ll find it here.

     

    How to start a personal finance blog

    When I first started my blog, I didn’t talk about finance at all. In fact, I didn’t know anything about finance at all. Instead, it’s something I became passionate about after my divorce and began sharing my own money journey.

    Like so many other female personal finance blogs, I’ve found sharing my money journey to be incredibly motivating, as well as a great way to connect with other women going through the same things I am. 

    If you’re considering starting a personal finance blog yourself, I 100% recommend it! Here’s how to get started:

    1. Decide what to blog about. This part can be hard, but you can always change it later! Just think about what topics you’re interested in, and topics that you already know a lot about.

    2. Choose a domain name. Try to choose a domain that matches your niche or your own name. I just use my own name.

    3. Secure your social media handles. You’ll want to make sure that your social media handles match your domain, so grab those ASAP.

    4. Sign up for a hosting plan. If you’re starting your blog in WordPress (which I highly recommend), you’ll have to sign up for hosting. The provider that I recommend and personally use is SiteGround. I’ve never had an issue with them and they have amazing customer service. Plus their plans start at just a few dollars per month.

    5. Install a theme. Your theme is the framework for your blog design. Pretty much all themes are super customizable, so it’s best to just choose one and get started. 

     

    Final Thoughts

    Reading personal finance blogs has hands-down been one of my favorite ways to learn as much as possible about finance. 

    Not only do personal finance blogs allow you to learn about all things money, but it allows you to do it from so many different perspectives. You really learn that everyone has their own story and challenges to overcome. 

    I hope that some of these blogs can help you to start tackling your own money journey.

  • 17 Foolproof Ways to Save Money on a Tight Budget

    I know from personal experience that when you’re living on a tight budget, saving money feels damn near impossible. Every dime is going toward paying your bills, and there’s little to nothing left at the end of the month. 

    I was at the point where I had nothing in savings, and every unexpected expense ended up going on a credit card. 

    Eventually, I figured out that even making small changes in my monthly spending could make a huge impact, and I was able to start saving more money than I thought possible. 

    In this post, I’m sharing all of the changes I made to help me actually start saving money and tips that you can start using today to save money on a tight budget. 

     

    17 Foolproof Ways to Save Money on a Tight Budget

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    Pay yourself first

    Regardless of how much extra income you’re able to set aside in savings, you have to take that important step of actually sticking to your savings goals.

    First of all, I always keep my savings in a separate savings account. That way, I don’t have the option of impulsively swiping my debit card to use some of that savings. 

    But the most important thing that I do is to pay myself first — and by myself, I mean my savings account. On the same day every month, I have an automatic transfer to move money from my checking account into my savings account. 

    I do it at the beginning of the month, so I don’t have the opportunity to spend it on something else first. And because it’s automatic, I never have to remind myself to save. 

    You see, I found that for years I always told myself I would save whatever I had left at the end of every month. Yet, at the end of every month, there’d be nothing left to put in savings. 

    Paying your savings account first is the absolute best way to make sure it gets done every month. The rest of the advice on this list doesn’t mean much without this one!

    Read More: How to Pay Yourself First and Finally Start Saving Money

     

    Review your budget

    If you haven’t reviewed your budget in a while (or you don’t have a budget), now is the time to fix this. It’s easy to set a budget for yourself and forget about it, but you’ve gotta keep reviewing it to make sure it still fits your life. 

    Things change, and people go through different seasons of life. I’ve gone through seasons of life where I was driving a lot for work and had to budget more for gas. I’ve also gone through seasons where I spent little on gas but a lot more on eating out. 

    I do this just about every month. As I’m budgeting out my income for the month, I ask myself whether my current budget really makes the most sense for where I’m at in life right now. If the answer is no, I change it up. 

    I do all of my budgeting in the app You Need a Budget. This app is hands-down the best I’ve used for setting up a budget and actually being able to stick to it.

    Not sure where to get started with your budget? Head over to my guide on starting a monthly budget.

     

    Save your extra paychecks

    For my entire career in politics, I got paid on the first day of every month. I loved getting paid monthly because I could pay all my bills and budget for the entire month at once. Then I knew right away how much I had for the rest of the month. 

    Then I got married, and my husband gets paid biweekly. At first, it seemed inconvenient — It would have been nice to stick to my once-per-month budget. 

    Then I realized that people who get paid biweekly have two months every year where they get paid three times instead of two — Then I started to come around to it. 

    We plan our budget under the assumption that my husband gets two paychecks per month. So during those lucky months when he gets three, we’re able to send them directly to savings. 

    If you get paid biweekly, take a look at a calendar and figure out what months you’re going to get three paychecks. Then make a plan to save that money or use it to pay off debt!

     

    Set up sinking funds

    You know those months where everything is going according to plan and your budget is right on track — and then something unexpected pops up? Maybe it’s a medical bill or a car repair you weren’t planning for. 

    Those expenses are the worst because there’s no way to know when they’re coming, and you hate to use your emergency fund for them (especially if you’re just getting yours started). 

    I struggled with this for years, and then I learned about something that seriously changed the game in my budgeting practice. 

    Sinking funds. 

    Sinking funds are when you set aside a certain amount of money every month for expenses you know you’re going to have, but you aren’t sure when. I have sinking funds for irregular spending categories such as medical bills, car maintenance, and pet expenses. 

    I also use a sinking fund for Christmas. Rather than go into a state of panic when November rolls around, and I realize how much money I’m about to drop on Christmas, I put some aside every month so I know we’ll have plenty when Christmas rolls around. 

     

    Track every dollar you spend

    Have you ever made it to the end of the month and wondered where the heck all your money went? Sometimes we don’t realize just how much we’re spending until we make it to the end of the month and there’s no money left. 

    The single biggest way I was able to get a handle on my spending was to start tracking it. I remember the first time I sat down and figured out how much I was actually spending — I was shocked at how much money was going toward eating out!

    I track all of my spending in my You Need a Budget app. The app connects to my bank accounts and automatically pulls all of my transactions. Before YNAB, I used to just track all of my transactions in an excel spreadsheet, which also worked great! 

     

    Separate wants vs. needs

    One of the biggest problems run into when cutting their spending is that they aren’t able to separate needs from wants. I’ve been there — I could easily convince myself that eating out was a “need” because, hey, you gotta eat. 

    If you’re really going to cut your spending, you need to get really honest with yourself about what counts as a need and what counts as a want. 

     

    Try a 50/30/20 budget

    One of the most effective budgeting methods I’ve found, especially for those living on a tight budget, is the 50/30/20 budget. 

    This budgeting system directs you to spend 50% of your take-home pay on necessities like housing, utilities, transportation, and groceries. 

    The next 30% of your budget goes towards wants — This is anything you want to spend your money on but don’t have to. 

    The final 20% of your budget goes toward debt and savings. This would be expenses like student loans, credit cards, retirement accounts, and your emergency fund. 

    One of the most eye-opening things about using this budget is realizing just how much you’re spending on housing. In parts of the country where housing is expensive, you might have to spend more of your pay on rent or your mortgage. But using this budget might also be a sign it’s time to change your housing situation. 

     

    Refinance your student loan

    Brandon and I had a lot of student loan debt when we got married — Like, a combined six-figures. Most of that debt was in the form of federal loans with fairly low interest rates. But a bit of it was a private loan with a 14% interest (painful, I know).

    One of the best money decisions we made to help save money every month was to refinance that loan. 

    If you’re shopping for a loan to refinance your student loans, I recommend Credible. You can see rates from more than a dozen different lenders to find the best loan for your situation.

    We were able to go from a rate of more than 14% to less than 5%. That changed alone saved us thousands of dollars in interest. If you have private student loans with a high interest rate, refinancing could do the same for you.

     

    Analyze your biggest money leaks

    It’s probably safe to say that we’ve all got a money leak or two, which is the splurge item that you tend to spend a bit too much money on. For Brandon and me, those money leaks are food and concert tickets. 

    Once you can identify your money leaks, you can start to address them. For us, this meant making several changes. 

    First, we cut back on eating and drinking out. We also started cooking budget meals at home, and making cocktails at home on the nights we felt tempted to go out. Finally, this meant restricting ourselves to one concert per month. 

    Everyone’s money leaks will look a little different. The key is figuring out what yours are and finding a way to cut down your spending while still allowing yourself the occasional splurge. 

     

    Rethink your car payment

    Car payments suck. In a perfect world, no one would ever have a payment for their car, and we’d all simply buy cars we can afford. Unfortunately, most of us have been at a point in our lives where that’s not possible.

    When I bought my first car with a car payment, I was married to my first husband. I got the car in the divorce, but I also got the car payment. While I powered through it for a few months, it eventually became clear that I couldn’t keep up with the payment. 

    I refinanced my car loan and ended up with a much lower monthly payment and a lower interest rate, which was a nice perk. 

    Your car payment is a low-hanging fruit way of saving money every month. Whether it’s refinancing your loan or buying a car you can afford without a monthly payment, figure out what works for your life right now. 

     

    Negotiate your bills

    For most of us, it would never occur to us to try to negotiate our monthly bills. But it turns out that you totally can. 

    There’s even an entire market of apps you can use to negotiate your bills on your behalf. Apps like Truebill, Trim, and Billshark all help you figure out where you’re spending too much money and negotiate lower payments. 

     

    Cut your utility use

    Your utility bill is one that you can’t get rid of — But there are definitely things you can do to lower it every month. 

    First, consider changing the temperature on your thermostat. If you can stand your house a little warmer in the summer and a little cooler in the winter, you can save yourself a heck of a lot of money. We cut our bill in half in the months we don’t regulate the temperature in our apartment!

    You can also reduce your bill by using a programmable thermostat. Turn down the heat or AC while you’re at work, and have it automatically turn back on before you come home. 

    You can also do little things like using energy-efficient utilities and simply using less electricity. 

     

    Use cash-back apps

    Cash-backs apps aren’t going to get you rich, but they will help you to save a little money here and there. And that’s exactly what you’re working toward when you’re on a tight budget. 

    A few of my favorite cash-back apps are Ibotta and Fetch Rewards, which give you cash back for scanning your grocery receipts. Another favorite is Rakuten, which gives you cash back for online purchases.

     

    Unfollow and unsubscribe

    Don’t get me wrong – I love Instagram as much as the next person. But I also know that when you see influencers sharing so many gorgeous clothes and products, it can be hard to resist doing a little shopping. 

    Similarly, it can be hard to resist spending money when you get an email from your favorite clothing store saying they’re having a huge sale (which they seem to be having nearly every day).

    If you find yourself having a hard time passing up deals when you see them on Instagram and in your emails, it might be time to unfollow and unsubscribe from anything that convinces you to spend money you don’t have. 

     

    Tackle high-interest debt

    One of the most frustrating things for me when I started my money journey is that I kept reading finance advice that told me to aggressively pay off debt. 

    If I don’t even have the wiggle room to put money into savings, how on earth am I going to put extra money toward debt?

    Then I started paying attention to how much I was paying being charged in interest every month on my credit cards. And I realized just how right they were. 

    Paying off high-interest debt is one of the best things you can do to put more money in your pocket every month and, more importantly, save you a lot of freaking money in the long run. 

    Trust me, I know how hard it is to put extra money toward debt when you’re just scraping by. But if you do everything else on this list, I promise you’ll have some money to spare!

    Read More: How to Pay Off Credit Card Debt Fast

     

    Avoid unnecessary fees

    A 2019 survey from Chime Bank found that the average American spends $329 per year on banking fees. I don’t know about you, but that sounds wild to me. 

    Those fees include overdraft fees, account fees, fees to redeem rewards, fees to receive paper statements, and fees for account inactivity. 

    Try going through your bank account for the past few months and try to spot any fees your bank has charged you. If you find any, it’s time to either switch banks or change your behavior. 

    If it’s the case that the fees you’re paying are a result of overdraft fees, try to figure out why that’s happening. Is it that you’re not paying attention to your balance or that emergencies are popping up that you have to pay for? What backup plan can you put into place instead of swiping your card when there’s no money in your account?

    If the fees aren’t a result of your behavior and it’s just that you have a fee-happy bank, it’s time to switch banks! There are plenty out there that don’t charge these ridiculous fees. 

     

    Start a side hustle

    Listen, I can share all the advice in the world about how you can save money every month. But at the end of the day, there’s only so much you can cut. 

    Rather than relying solely on cutting expenses to help me save more money, my favorite way to do it has been by increasing my income through side hustles. 

    Today I run my business full-time, but for years I worked a full-time job while I worked on my blog and wrote freelance articles on the side. 

    If you’re interested in using a side hustle to increase your income, feel free to check out my list of 11 ways you can make an extra $1,000 per month. 

     

    Final Thoughts

    When you’re on a tight budget, saving even the smallest amount seems like an impossible task. Trust me, I’ve been there myself. 

    But since I started going all-in on my personal finance, I’ve learned so many legit ways to save money every month, even when there’s not a lot of wiggle room in the budget. 

    If you’re on a tight budget, I hope you’ll give a few of these tips a shot to help you start putting money away to help you build an emergency fund or pay off debt.

  • 11 Ways to Make an Extra $1,000 a Month

    When my husband and I got married, we knew we had some financial goals we wanted to meet pretty quickly. 

    Together we had six figures of debt, and we knew we wanted to pay that off as soon as possible. Thinking about making these student loan payments twenty years from now sounded miserable, so we settled on a payoff timeline of about seven years. 

    We also had some big purchases we knew we wanted to save for. We also had plans to give up our apartment and buy an RV so we could travel the country in it.

    We also knew we wanted to buy a home when we got back to Wisconsin, so we wanted to start preparing for that early.

    So I guess you could say we’ve got an expensive few years ahead of us. 

    The best way for us to aggressively pay down our debt and save for our financial goals at the same time has been to increase our income. 

    $1,000 in extra income per month can go a long way!

    In this post, I’m sharing how you can make an extra $1,000 a month to start tackling your financial goals. 

     

    11 Ways to Make an Extra $1000 Per Month

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    Why is it good to make extra money?

    How many times have you read a personal finance book or blog post that said you should stop buying lattes or start clipping coupons to reach your financial goals?

    Yeah, it might not be terrible advice, and those things can help you to save a few dollars here and there. But are you really going to pay off your student loans or buy your dream house by saving a few dollars here and there? Probably not. 

    Rather than ruthlessly cutting small things from our budget, my husband and I have found the best way to reach our financial goals is to make more money. 

    After all, we really wanted to be able to aggressively pay off debt while also enjoying live music and eating out since those are our favorite things to spend money on. 

    Making an extra $1,000 a month can make a huge difference in helping you to reach your goals. 

    With $1,000 extra income per month, you could pay off your student loans in just a few years rather than the 10-20 years it’s scheduled to take. 

    With $1,000 extra income per month, you could save the downpayment for your dream home in just a few years. 

    With $1,000 extra income per month, you could take an amazing vacation every year and still have enough to save aggressively for retirement. 

    I’m telling you, making extra money is the secret you’ve been looking for!

     

    What are the best ways to make extra income?

    When you first think about it, $1,000 sounds like a lot of money. And don’t get me wrong, it’s definitely more than spare change. 

    But when you do the math to figure out exactly what you have to do to hit that number, it’s actually not as hard as you’d think!

    An extra $1,000 could be:

    • 25 hours per week at $10 per hour
    • 10 hours per week at $25 per hour
    • $250 from four freelance clients each
    • 10 online courses sold for $100 each
    • 8 musical lessons taught for $125 each

     

    START A BLOG

    I can honestly say that starting a blog was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. Not only is it something that I genuinely enjoy doing, but it is also an amazing way to bring in additional income every month. 

    There are plenty of different ways to make money blogging depending on what interests you. You could make money through affiliate marketing, sidebar ads, working with companies on sponsored blog posts, or selling your own digital products like eBooks and online courses. 

    You can start your own blog or niche site on just about anything. I’ve seen successful blogs in just about every niche you could think of. As long as someone out there is interested in it, you’ve got a potential audience. 

    And for what it’s worth, I was able to launch my tiny personal finance blog into a six-figure freelance writing business.

     

    BECOME A FREELANCER

    When you work as a freelancer, you’re an independent contractor providing a particular service to another person or company. 

    If you’ve got a specific skill set to be a freelance writer, graphic designer, or social media manager, you can find work as a freelancer online. 

    In 2018, in addition to running my blog, I started picking up freelance writing clients. In just a little over a year, I was able to take my freelance writing income from just a few hundred dollars here and there to $10,000 per month. 

    My favorite resource to get started with freelance writing is the online course Earn More Writing. In this course, six-figure freelance writer Holly Johnson teaches you how to get started with freelance writing and make serious money online. 

     

    START A YOUTUBE CHANNEL

    We’re living in an increasingly visual world, so it’s not surprising that video continues to become a bigger and bigger deal every year. 

    And while it might seem like it’s too late to start a YouTube channel (hasn’t it all been done already??), there’s definitely still room for anyone who has something unique to bring to the table. 

    Certain niches tend to really go hand in hand with video, but honestly, people have been successful on video in just about every niche!

    If YouTube sounds right for you, I recommend finding an online course on video and editing. With so much competition out there, people really expect high-quality videos. 

    Start sharing your creations with the world, and before you know it, you’ll start bringing in extra money. 

     

    BECOME A VIRTUAL ASSISTANT

    One of the awesome things about the rise of online businesses is that it’s created an entirely new career — Virtual assistants. 

    A virtual assistant (aka a VA) is an independent contractor that provides administrative services for online clients. 

    Plenty of online business owners hire VAs to help them in all areas of their business. Some do really basic administrative tasks like responding to emails, while others might have a more narrow specialty, like running someone’s Pinterest account or doing all of their social media scheduling. 

    You can find VA jobs on just about any job board these days. You can also join Facebook groups for business owners and find anyone looking for VA services. 

     

    START A SERVICE-BASED BUSINESS

    Plenty of people make extra cash by offering services to people in their community. If you have a talent, chances are other people are willing to pay you for it. 

    For example, the photographer my husband and I hired for our wedding actually does that as a side gig, and she has a different job she works as her full-time job. 

    She’s at the point where she’s definitely making more than $1,000 per month, but you’ve gotta start somewhere! 

    A service-based business could also be something as simple as mowing people’s lawns in the summer or shoveling their driveways in the winter. 

    Plenty of people offering service-based businesses start off just to make some extra money and then end up going full-time later on. 

     

    TEACH ENGLISH ONLINE

    Another easy way to make $1,000 per month is by teaching English online. You can do this by using a site like VIPKID. 

    VIPKID is an online education service that connects kids in China with English teachers. And no, you don’t have to be an actual English teacher to join. 

    On VIPKID, you can make up to $22 per hour teaching short half-hour lessons to kids. The best part is that you can make your own schedule, meaning you can make an extra $1,000 per hour in your spare time between other commitments.

     

    START AN ETSY SHOP

    If you’re crafty, Etsy can be a great way to make some extra money every month. Etsy is an online marketplace where you can sell anything that is handmade or vintage.

    You can sell hand-made items on Etsy, like jewelry or knitted items. You can also sell digital items. Plenty of people sell printables and spreadsheets of all kinds. 

    I had an Etsy shop as a part of my business model for a number of years, and it was a great way to make a little extra money every month. 

     

    JOIN THE GIG ECONOMY

    One of the best things about technology today is that there is no shortage of apps you can download and immediately start making money. 

    These apps exist in what is called the gig economy, where you make money by picking up gigs.

    One way to make money with apps is by driving for Uber or Lyft, where you make money by driving people around in your own car. You’re basically a freelance taxi, and you can pick up a few rides whenever you’ve got time. 

    You can also make money online by delivering things. Apps like DoorDash and GrubHub allow you to sign up to deliver food. Other apps, such as Instacart pay you to go grocery shopping for other people and deliver their groceries to their homes. 

    There are also gig apps that don’t require driving anyone or delivering anything. Sites like Rover, for example, allow you to make money by pet sitting or walking people’s dogs. Sounds like a fun way to make money to me!

     

    TEACH OTHERS A SKILL

    You might be noticing a trend with this list, but the gist of it is that you can find a way to monetize just about any skill. 

    Depending on the skill, you might be able to teach lessons in your community. 

    For example, let’s say you’re skilled at a particular musical instrument. Chances are there are people in town who are interested in taking lessons. 

    If you’re teaching people locally, you can start sharing your services on social media. You could also offer a few lessons for free and ask those people to spread the word about your services. 

     

    RENT OUT A ROOM ON AIRBNB

    If you have an extra room in your house or a house or apartment you’re not always using, you could make extra money by renting it out on Airbnb. 

    This can be a great way to make a bit of extra money without too much of a time commitment. 

    Even if you don’t live in an area with a ton of tourism, there are almost certainly people coming into town for events, businesses, or to visit friends and family. 

    I know it can sound super sketchy to let a stranger come stay in your home with you, but you can screen the people who stay with you. Plus, someone coming to visit the city is probably going to be spending most of their time out, so you won’t run into them too much. 

    I’ve even read about people who rent out their apartments during their city’s tourist season and then just crash with their parents anytime someone books the place. 

     

    GET A SECOND JOB

    So many people are constantly on the lookout for the next big side hustle that they forget all about the original side hustle: getting a second job. 

    Often, these are the side jobs where you can actually earn the most money the most quickly. 

    You might think that sounds crazy, but hear me out!

    I started my blog in 2014. It started as a hobby, but it didn’t take long for me to learn that people actually make money from their blogs. As soon as I learned that, I wanted in. 

    I worked on my blog for an entire year before I made a single dollar. That first year was spent building a framework I could make money from home with later. 

    It was another year or so before I was making $1,000 per month. 

    Now don’t get me wrong — Plenty of people make a lot more money with their blogs a lot more quickly. But to do that, you have to devote a lot of time to it. As in, you skip all those happy hours and weekend plans with friends because you’re always working.

    Contrast that with my husband, who took a side job as a bartender for a couple of nights per week while we were working to save money.

    When he started that job, he was immediately able to start earning $1,000 per month (or more). There was no period of “building a framework.” 

    While it took me a couple of years to get to earning $1,000 per month on my blog, it took him no time at all. 

    So if what you’re really looking for is just an extra $1,000 per month, getting a second job might be the quickest way to make it happen. 

     

    Final Thoughts

    An extra $1,000 of income a month can have such a big impact on your life. It doesn’t take that many hours per week to get there, and yet it can actually be life-changing. 

    I can tell you that when I was going through my divorce and at my lowest financially, that extra monthly income is what got me through it. 

    Whether you want the extra month to pay off debt, save for a financial goal, or just live a little bigger, all of the tips on this list can help you to get there. 

  • Financial Goals to Help Make 2023 Your Best Year Yet

    Before I started my personal finance journey, I knew almost nothing about money management. Needless to say, there was a huge learning curve. 

    A huge part of this journey has been setting financial goals to create some direction for me. This has been such a game-changer in helping me to take control of my financial life and actually feel ahead instead of just always falling behind!

    Luckily my husband has been great about jumping on board and setting financial goals with me too. 

    In this post, I’m sharing why you should set financial goals and how to set them, and I’m giving you a list of some great financial goals you can set for 2023!

     

    The Best Financial Goals to Set in 2020

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    Why you should set financial goals

    There’s a big difference between wanting to do something and actually doing something. And the difference is almost always setting actionable goals. 

    For many years, I would have told you that paying off debt was a top priority for me. And yet, my husband and I were making the minimum payment every month on our six figures of debt. 

    So yeah, we said it was a priority for us. But our actions proved that was not really the case. 

    Setting goals is what allows you to stop just dreaming about getting your finances in order and actually start doing it.

    Setting long and short-term financial goals is an absolute game-changer in taking control of your financial life and actually living a life you’re excited about. 

     

    How to set financial goals

    Ok, so we know we need to be setting financial goals. How the heck do we actually do that?

    First, focus on setting SMART financial goals — specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-bound. 

    First, make sure your goal is specific and measurable. Don’t just say, “I want to save money.” Instead, say, “I want to save $5,000 by the end of the year.” Also, make sure the goal has an end date. If you allow yourself to work toward your goal indefinitely, it will take an indefinite amount of time. 

    The most important part of reaching any goal is creating an actionable to-do list to make it happen. Write down every single task you’re going to have to complete to make your goal a reality. 

     

    Financial goals to set for 2023

    Financial goals are so personal to what you want for your life. That being said, I know a lot of people don’t know where to start with setting financial goals. So I’m going to share some specific personal finance goal examples for you. 

     

    CREATE A BUDGET

    I know you’re probably rolling your eyes seeing this one at the top of the list, but you knew it would be on here! Creating a budget and actually sticking to it is the one thing that makes everything else on this list possible!

    It is so freaking important to have a plan for your money and to know where it is going every month. That is the difference between being in control of your finances and just being a passive bystander. Trust me, I’ve been the passive bystander, and it sucks — plus, you’re broke all the damn time. 

    When I first started getting diligent about budgeting, I just used a spreadsheet. It worked great for the first several years and really got me to stick with the practice. 

    Now I use a budget app called You Need a Budget. I can’t praise this tool enough! It’s a very hands-on budgeting tool, and I think it creates a lot more accountability than your traditional budgeting apps. 

    Check out my guide on how to put together and stick to a monthly budget.

     

    BUILD YOUR EMERGENCY FUND

    Did you know that nearly one-third of Americans don’t have an emergency fund, and nearly half don’t have enough money to cover a $1,000 emergency?

    As much as I’d like to think I’d never be in that situation, I was exactly that person for years. 

    After my divorce, I could barely afford to pay my bills — actually, I couldn’t afford to pay my bills. So I definitely wasn’t putting money away for a rainy day. 

    And then, when things like car repairs would pop up, they’d go on the credit card. And sadly, this is the case for many people. 

    Make 2023 the year that you prioritize an emergency fund! How much you should save depends on your life circumstances, but shoot for between three and six months of expenses.

    Read More: How to Build an Emergency Fund & How Much You Should Save

     

    AUTOMATE YOUR SAVINGS

    You wanna know the single biggest thing that helped me to actually stick with putting money into savings?

    AUTOMATION. 

    For years I would tell myself that I’d take whatever money I had left at the end of the month and put it into savings. And, of course, I never had anything left at the end of the money. 

    So what I started doing instead was having an automatic transfer move money from my checking account to my savings account on the day I got paid. 

    It happened on the first of the money, and it was before I ever had a chance to notice the money was in my checking account in the first place. 

    If you’re having trouble putting money into savings, try setting up an automatic transfer so you’re paying your savings account before you use that money for anything else. 

    Read More: 6 Easy Ways to Automate Your Finances

     

    START A SIDE HUSTLE

    Listen, there are a lot of financial goals in this blog post. And things like paying off debt and saving for the future cost money. 

    I talk a lot on this blog about designing a life you love, and for a lot of people, their dream life isn’t cheap. And that’s okay!

    Rather than feel guilty for wanting expensive things like a house or a wedding or vacations, make a plan to pay for them. Having a side hustle has been the best way I’ve found to do that. 

    After all, you can only make the income you have go so far. Rather than pinching pennies, why not just increase your income?

    My favorite ways to make money on the side have been freelance writing and my blog. I’ve always loved writing, so I don’t mind spending most of my free time doing it. 

    If writing isn’t your thing, no problem! There are literally endless side hustle ideas out there, and I feel like I read about new ones every day!

    Here are a bunch of other ideas for how to make extra money to put toward your financial goals. 

     

    MAKE A PLAN TO PAY OFF YOUR DEBT

    I recently published a blog post about how we made a plan to pay off our six figures of debt. 

    Plenty of people have huge debt and just make the minimum payments every month. And for a long time, we were those people. 

    Making a plan completely changed the game. Just last year, we were on track to have our debt paid off…well, never. Now, as long as we follow our debt pay-off plan, we’ll be debt-free in less than seven years. 

    You know what finally pushed me to make an actual plan? I was looking at my credit card bill, and it had a chart that showed when my card would be paid off if I made the minimum payment every month. It was like thirty years, and the balance wasn’t even that high! 

    Needless to say, I panicked and immediately started running the numbers to figure out the soonest we could possibly have our debt paid off. 

    If you have a lot of debt and you aren’t sure where to start, I highly recommend the tool Undebt.it, which allows you to add each of your debts and come up with a debt snowball to get it paid off sooner. 

     

    MAXIMIZE YOUR CREDIT CARD REWARDS

    I know there are plenty of finance experts who swear up and down that credit cards are evil and no one should ever use them. And as someone who has credit card debt, I understand where this argument is coming from. 

    But I also completely disagree with it. 

    Now let me preface this by saying that if you know you can’t control your spending with a credit card and you continue to grow your balance, ignore this step and stop using credit cards. 

    But if that’s not a problem for you, then find a way to maximize your credit card rewards. 

    Some cards offer some really awesome rewards. This year for the first time, Brandon and I sat down and came up with a strategy for how we’ll use our credit cards to maximize our rewards.

    We have a few credit card accounts that have different reward structures, and some have bigger wins for certain types of purchases. 

    For anyone who wants to get started with credit card rewards and isn’t sure where to start, I recommend getting one good cash-back card and one good travel rewards card. 

    The most important part of this strategy is that you pay your balance off every single month, so you’re never paying interest!

     

    SAVE FOR RETIREMENT

    For the first five or so years that I was out of college, I didn’t think much about saving for retirement. It seemed lifetimes away. 

    I was also privileged enough to find a job working for the state, where they automatically withdraw a certain percentage of income for my retirement account and provide a pretty generous match. 

    It wasn’t until I started reading personal finance books that I really started to think about how much money I would actually need for retirement. Would my basic retirement savings be enough?

    Plus, as I prepare to leave my government job to go full-time in my business, I know that saving for retirement will be solely my responsibility — I won’t have an employer pushing it on me. 

    So over the past year, I spent a lot of time educating myself on individual retirement accounts (IRAs) and compound interest. Now I’ll be going into self-employment with a specific plan for saving for retirement. 

    If you haven’t yet started saving for retirement, now’s the time! The first book I read that was a wake-up call for me on this subject was Smart Women Finish Rich by David Bach — I seriously recommend it for all women. 

    Even if you’re already saving for retirement, take a few minutes to reevaluate your strategy. How much are you putting away each month, and how much do you expect that to amount to in retirement?

    Are you just putting some into your company’s 401(k), or are you saving in an IRA as well? Are you saving aggressively, or just putting in the bare minimum. 

     

    READ PERSONAL FINANCE BOOKS

    Reading personal finance books was one of the biggest factors that pushed me on my own personal finance journey. Some of the books I’ve read have honestly been life-changing. 

    I have an entire blog post with some of the best personal finance books out there, but here three of my favorites:

    1. I Will Teach You To Be Rich by Ramit Sethi. This is hands-down my favorite personal finance book. First of all, I love the way Ramit writes, and I appreciate his blunt approach to financial advice. In this book, Ramit walks you through a six-week program to figure out what a rich life means for you, how to set up a budget, where to prioritize your money, and how to invest and save for the future. My copy is full of highlighter, margin notes and dog ears and I’ve gone back to it so many times! 

    2. Smart Women Finish Rich by David Bach. I’ve already mentioned this book, but it’s worth mentioning again. I first heard of David Bach when I was listening to a podcast where he was a guest. He was talking about how most personal finance information is geared toward men, and yet women are the ones who live longer and often spend their last years living in poverty because of the poor financial decisions of the men in their life. It was startling and totally eye-opening. He also talked about the power of compound interest and how, if you start early, it only takes a little every day to set yourself up for retirement. I can’t recommend this book enough! 

    3. You Are a Badass at Making Money by Jen Sincero. I’ve never paid much attention to mindset advice. It always seemed a little too woo-woo for me. I’d always take quantifiable, actionable advice over anything. And then a few things changed. First, I started learning from a life coach who blew my mind. And I read Jen Sincero’s Badass books. What a freaking game-changer. Following the advice in this book has completely changed the way I think about and talk about money. Subsequently, I’ve made exponentially more in my business since reading this book than I’ve ever made before. 

     

    BOOST YOUR CREDIT SCORE

    I read a statistic recently that more than half of Americans never check credit their credit score. Like….literally never. 

    Considering your credit score can make the difference of tens of thousands of dollars in interest, that’s a pretty frightening statistic.

    When you take out a loan or any kind of credit, your interest rate is based, in large part, on your credit score. The higher your credit score, the lower the interest rate you’ll get. 

    So when you’re talking about a big purchase like a house or a college education, yeah, it can be a difference of tens of thousands of dollars. 

    This is another reason why I don’t agree with people’s advice to avoid credit cards at all costs. Using credit cards properly can really help you to boost your credit score! 

    My credit score took a huge hit when I went into debt after my divorce, and I’ve been focusing big time on getting it back up. Check out my blog post on how to repair your credit score during major life changes.

     

    CREATE LONG-TERM FINANCIAL GOALS

    Setting personal finance goals for this year is amazing. But we also need to be thinking a little further in advance. 

    Because here’s the thing — someday, you’re going to want to buy a house or have a wedding or do something else that costs a whole lot of money. And if you only set your financial goals for one year at a time, that’s going to be tough. 

    MY HUSBAND and I sat down together and talked about what we want the next 3-5 years of our lives to look like. We specifically nailed down the big expenses we anticipate coming up so we can start saving for them now. 

    For example, after we do some traveling for a couple of years, we know we’ll want to come home and buy a house. So instead of waiting until we’re done traveling to start saving for a house downpayment, I’m going to set up a budget goal for it now so we can put a little money in every month. 

    Your goal doesn’t have to be buying a house or planning a wedding. It might be starting a business, going on a killer vacation, or having kids. Whatever you envision your life being five years from now, start saving for it now!

     

    Final Thoughts

    Listen, we can’t do it all. And as much as I would love for all of us to tackle every single thing on this list, we’ve gotta focus on baby steps. 

    At the same time, I promise that if you make a budget and take at least the first step toward the rest of the financial goals on this list, you’re going to be setting yourself up for amazing things in the future. 

  • How We’re Planning to Pay Off Six Figures of Debt

    One of the first conversations my husband and I had when we got engaged was the money talk. 

    We had already talked about finances before, but getting married meant it was 100% necessary that we get in sync and make sure we were on the same page when it came to financial goals. 

    And the biggest financial goal we talked about? Becoming debt-free.

    We have a combined six figures of debt (around $150,000, actually). That debt is mostly in the form of student loans. I also have a car loan and some credit debt that I racked up during a particularly difficult time in my life. 

    If we were to pay the minimum payment on all of our debts every month, we would literally have this debt until we die. And we just weren’t okay with that. 

    2019 was the year we got married – It was also the year that we got serious about tackling debt and made a step-by-step, actionable plan to pay it off.

    In this post, I’m sharing how exactly Brandon and I plan to pay off our six figures of debt – and how you can do it too!

    2020 Update: Since writing this piece, Brandon and I have paid off all of our non-student loan debt. While saving for our RV, we were also able to pay off our car loan and credit card debt.

     

    How We’re Planning to Pay Off Six Figures of Debt

    There are affiliate links in this post, meaning I may make a small commission at no additional cost to you. For more information, see my full disclosure policy here.

     

    We figured out exactly how much debt we had

    The very first step we had to take in order to make a plan to pay off our debt was first to figure out how much debt we actually had. 

    Prior to getting married, we had talked about roughly how much we had, but starting this project was the first time we really put it all down in one place. 

    When it came to gathering all of our debt accounts, we used a tool called Undebt.it. This tool allows you to enter all of your debts, including your total balance, interest rate, and minimum monthly payment. It tells you how much debt you have and when you can expect to pay it off if you make the minimum monthly payment on all of your debts. 

    If you have a lot of debt, this date will make you want to cry. I promise you’re not tied to that date, though!

    Undebt.it is a great tool for this job because helping you to organize and pay off your debt is literally what it’s made for. I also love it because it syncs with the budgeting app we use, You Need a Budget.

    If you’d rather not use Undebt.it, you can literally just do this step in a spreadsheet. Just have a column for each debt, the total balance, the minimum monthly payment, and the interest rate. 

     

    We took responsibility for our decisions

    Figuring out how much debt we had and taking responsibility for the amount of debt we had were two very different steps. 

    You see, I spent a lot of time being pretty angry about my debt. I was angry that we have a system that resulted in us having six figures of student loan debt for two bachelor’s degrees. I was angry that my divorce put me in a situation where I had to live off credit cards to get back on my feet. 

    But at the end of the day, those are decisions that I made. 

    I chose to take out student loans rather than go to a two-year college or take a few more years to work before going to college. I chose to rack up credit card debt rather than move back home to save money or severely cut costs. 

    So yeah, taking responsibility for our debt decisions was a big step we had to take in actually taking the next step to pay that shit off. 

    Of course, I know there are structural and societal problems that lead to and perpetuate the problem of debt for many people. We should have a system where people have to go into crippling debt to pay for college. We shouldn’t have a national income disparity that makes it difficult for so many people to pay their bills.

    But for the purposes of us actually addressing our debt, owning responsibility for it was actually helpful.

     

    Refinanced our highest-interest student loans

    Most of our debt is student loan debt, with a car loan and a bit of credit card debt on top of that. Most of our student loan debts were at a pretty low-interest rate. Unfortunately, there were a couple of private student loans that were at an astronomical interest rate (like, over 14%). 

    Yeah, it was bad. We knew we had to get that fixed ASAP. 

    If you’re shopping for a loan to refinance your student loans, I recommend Credible. You can see rates from more than a dozen different lenders to find the best loan for your situation.

     

    Getting on a budget

    Yep, we’re going to talk about the dreaded “B” word – budget. 

    I’ve had a bit of a rocky history with budgeting. I didn’t really create a budget until I was in my early twenties, but I didn’t really stick with it. 

    Then I got divorced at 27, and suddenly sticking to a budget became 100% necessary. 

    But then my husband and I met and suddenly had a two-income home. And if I’m being honest, sticking to a budget kind of fell by the wayside. 

    We knew that if we were going to get serious about paying off debt, we weren’t going to do it without a budget. 

    My favorite budgeting tool is the app You Need a Budget (aka YNAB) – that’s an affiliate link, but it will get you a free trial. Seriously, if there were one financial tool I would recommend to literally everyone, this is it.

    Rather than other budgeting apps that just tell you how much you spent at the end of the money so you can feel bad about yourself, YNAB is a hands-on tool that forces you to be an active participant in your budgeting. 

    Using YNAB has completely changed the way to budget – is it weird if I say I actually enjoy it??

    The other huge perk when it comes to paying off debt is that YNAB syncs with the debt payoff app I mentioned earlier, Undebt.it. 

    One of the most important parts of putting together our budget was that not only have we been able to limit the amount of money we spend on nonessentials, but it’s given us an idea of how much money we can put toward debt every month. 

    If budgeting is still a struggle for you, check out my guide on creating a monthly budget that you’ll actually stick to. 

     

    We made a plan

    If you had asked me at any point over the past few years, I would have told you that, yes, paying off debt was a huge priority for me. And yet, I had no actual plan to pay off my debt and I was making the minimum monthly payments on all of my debts.

    Finally, we realized that if wen wanted to get our debt paid off in our lifetime, we would need to sit down and make a plan. 

    The first step to making a plan was creating our budget and deciding how much money we wanted to put toward debt every month. At this point, we’re allocating $2,000 per month toward debt (that number will go up with side hustle profit and as our incomes increase). 

    Once we knew how much to put toward debt every month, we had to figure out what to do with it. 

    There are two primary strategies to use for paying off debt: the debt snowball and the debt avalanche. 

    The debt snowball is where you pay the minimum monthly payment on all of your debts except for the smallest one. You put all of the extra money you have to put toward debt toward that smallest debt.

    Then, once your smallest debt is paid off, you take all the money you were putting toward that one and start putting it toward your new smallest debt. 

    The benefits of the debt snowball are largely psychological because you’re paying off debts soon it. But it doesn’t actually provide you with the most savings, which is why I prefer the debt avalanche. 

    The debt avalanche is where, instead of prioritizing your smallest debt, you prioritize the debt with the highest interest rate.  Over the long run, the debt avalanche provides the most savings because you’re eliminating the debts that are earning the most interest. 

    We used Undebt.it to sort our debts in order of highest interest to lowest. The tool shows you when each of your debts will be paid off and how much interest you’ll pay over the life of all of your loans. I love that Undebt.it syncs with YNAB, so I don’t have to manually update our accounts each month!

     

    We’ve increased our income

    I get that $2,000 is a lot to put toward debt each month. We’re incredibly lucky that we’re able to afford that much. That’s definitely one of the benefits of a two-income house with no kids. 

    But that $2,000 per month debt payment maxes out our budget, and we have a lot of other financial goals we want to reach before our debt is paid off. 

    In order to reach those other financial goals, we had to bring in income in other ways. 

    Luckily, we both already had a side income. Brandon bartends a couple of nights per week after his full-time job, and I’ve been running my blog for years now. 

    Once we decided to start really going after our debt, I worked really hard to increase my income so that we could still reach our other financial goals – specifically, our goal to buy an RV and travel full-time starting later in 2020!

    I completely rebranded my blog, increased my affiliate marketing efforts, and went all-in on freelance writing. 

    Because of putting in so much extra effort last year, I was able to 10x my monthly side hustle income in 2019. A big part of that has been growing my freelance writing business big-time. 

    I’ll be working on increasing my business income even more this year since traveling full-time will require leaving my full-time and running my business full-time. 

     

    We looked for other opportunities to save money

    Even though we’ve worked our debt payoff into our budget and are bringing in side income to pay for our other financial goals, we’re still always on the lookout for other ways to save money. 

    Some of these tactics have been no extra work at all. In fact, some of them have actually saved us work. For example, did you know that some student loan companies will give you a small discount on your interest rate if you set up autopay? 

    We also take advantage of cash rewards on our credit cards. We have two primary credit cards we use – one is a cashback card, and one is a travel rewards card. We pay them off in full every month. 

    Finally, we use cashback apps to save a few dollars here and there. One of my favorite cashback sites is Rakuten (formerly Ebates), which gives you cashback for shopping at certain retailers. 

    The other cashback apps I love are Fetch Rewards and Ibotta, which give you cash back on select grocery items. I use them for our grocery shopping every week and always find a few dollars in savings. 

     

    We’ll adjust our plan as our income increases

    According to our current debt payoff plan, we will have our $150,000 of debt paid off in about seven years. But in my mind, this is kind of a worst-case scenario plan.

    As our income increases over the next few years (which I fully expect that it will), we will plan to put more money toward paying off our debt. We can also use small windfalls such as tax returns, gifts, and any other bonus money we bring in. 

    It’s impossible to say exactly what our life will look like for the next seven years – I fully expect we’ll go through a lot of changes! We’re going to remain flexible and hope that we can increase our debt payoff above and beyond our current plan. 

     

    We’re striving for balance

    As I mentioned earlier, my husband and I have other financial goals we want to hit over the next few years. And as much as I’m looking forward to being debt-free, I’m not willing to put the rest of our lives on hold until that happens. 

    For that reason, we’re striving for balance rather than putting every last spare penny we have toward debt. 

    We still go out to eat and buy tickets to concerts (our two favorite hobbies). We’re still putting aside money for other financial goals, and we’re still saving for retirement. 

    I think it’s incredible when I read stories about people who pay off six figures of debt in just a couple of years – those people are rock stars!

    But at the same time, neither my husband nor I want to sacrifice that much. We might change our minds at some point, but right now our goal is balance. 

     

    Final Thoughts

    Making a plan to pay off our six figures of debt has been an emotional ride. When we would look at the big picture, it would always seem like a completely daunting situation that we’ll never get out of. 

    Breaking it down into small steps and actually putting dates to everything took this incredibly scary number and made it seem so much more manageable. 

    We’re still early in the process, and I fully expect it to be an emotional roller coaster, but at this point, we both feel so confident in our plan and excited for the day we are debt-free!

    I’ll continue to share more updates as we go, as well as some of the lessons we’ve learned so that others who are paying off a large amount of debt can learn from our journey.