• Is Renting Throwing Away Money?

    Is Renting Throwing Away Money_


    We need to talk. More specifically, we need to talk about one of the most common myths I see making its way around the personal finance world. That myth is:

    “Renting is throwing away money.”

    Multiple times per week I hear from people who want to buy a home because they’re worried they’re throwing away money by renting. Maybe they heard this from their parents, or maybe it was strangers on the internet.

    In this article, I want to clear up that misconception by showing you how renting is definitely not throwing away money.


    Is Renting Throwing Away Money?


    Why people say that renting is throwing away money


    Before I talk about why renting is definitely not throwing away money, let’s cover the reasons why people think this is the case.


    1. Your mortgage payment builds equity in your home

    Every month when you pay your mortgage, a portion of your payment goes toward your principal, meaning the amount you initially borrowed.

    Your equity is the difference between your home’s value and the principal you still owe on your mortgage. And so as you pay down your principal, your equity in the home increases.


    2. Homeowners benefit from rising home values

    The real estate market may ebb and flow, but home values generally increase over time. As a result, many homeowners are able to sell their homes for more than they paid for them, resulting in a capital gain.

    I’m not going to argue the validity of either of these statements. It’s absolutely true that paying your mortgage builds equity in your home and that your home’s value is likely to rise over the years. But in the next couple of sections, we’ll talk about why those things don’t matter as much as you might think.


    The return on investment of homeownership


    It’s true that home values have consistently increased over the years. Since 1940, home values have increased an average of 5.5% per year.

    Depending on your investing experience, you might think 5.5% sounds pretty good. But what about when you compare it to other investments?

    According to the Securities and Exchange Commission, the stock market sees an average annual return of about 10% per year. That’s nearly twice as much as the increase in value of a home.


    So just how different are those percentages?


    Let’s say you invested $100 per month for 30 years into an investment with a 5.5% annual return. After 30 years, you’d have more than $87,000.

    But if you had invested that same $100 per month into an investment a 10% return? Because of compound interest, you’d end up with just shy of $200,000 — more than twice the return on a 5.5% investment.

    It’s also important to note that the amount you pay for a house is far from the only investment you make into it. When you account for all the other expenses, it’s likely your returns from the increase in value are completely wiped out.


    Let’s do the math: Renting vs. buying


    It’s easy to think you’re throwing away money by renting because the money you pay each month doesn’t build equity in your home. But let’s look at an example that might change your mind.


    Closing costs

    Closing costs aren’t an ongoing expense of homeownership, but they make up a substantial cost in the first year. Closing costs run between 1% and 3% of the home’s purchase price. For a home priced at $335,000, your closing costs would be $3,350.



    Let’s say you rent an apartment for $1,500 per month. You’re sick of throwing away money renting, so you buy that $335,000 home with the monthly mortgage payment of $1,500.

    But that entire $1,500 doesn’t build equity in your home. In fact, in the early years of homeownership, most of your monthly payment goes toward interest. If you have an interest rate of 3.5%, then about $11,622 of your payment goes toward interest in the first year.

    Note: I found these numbers using Bankrate’s mortgage amortization calculator for a mortgage of $335,000 and an interest rate of 3.5%.


    Property taxes

    Next, let’s talk about property taxes. Rates vary depending on where you live. But according to the U.S. Census Bureau, the average household spends about $2,471 on property taxes each year. We’ll use that for the purposes of this example.


    Homeowners insurance

    Another ongoing cost of homeownership is homeowners insurance. The cost will vary depending on where you live, the size of your home, how much coverage you want, and many more factors. According to ValuePenguin, the average cost of homeowners insurance is $1,445 per year.



    Finally, let’s talk about home maintenance. As a homeowner, you’re responsible for any repairs that need to be done. There’s no more landlord to call.

    Unfortunately, it’s impossible to predict how much you’ll spend on maintenance each year. However, experts recommend planning for about 1% of the cost of your home. On your $335,000 home, you could expect to spend $3,335.


    Renting vs. buying: What’s the verdict?


    People like to argue that renting is throwing away money. But as you can see, there are many expenses of homeownership that don’t build your equity in the home. Let’s compare how much money you throw away renting versus in your first year of homeownership.

    renting vs. owning

    As you can see, you “throw away” significantly more in your first year of homeownership than you would renting. And sure, closing costs are a one-time cost rather than an ongoing one. But even if you eliminate that cost, you still throw away more money per year owning a home than you do renting.


    Owning a home vs. real estate investing


    None of this is to say that you can’t make money from real estate investing. In fact, It’s important real estate can be incredibly profitable. But your primary home is not an investment property.

    When you purchase an investment property, the increasing home value isn’t really where you make your money. You make your money by renting out the property and bringing in passive income each month.


    Is renting better than buying?


    You might be reading this article and think that I’m saying homeownership is a bad idea or a waste of money. But that’s not remotely true. In fact, my husband and I are saving for a home right now.

    We want to own a home because we love our community, and we want to become a more permanent part of it. We want a space that’s truly ours. We want a yard where our dog can run around and where we can entertain friends.

    There are also many reasons I love renting a home. I love that I don’t have to mow the lawn in the summer or shovel the snow in the winter. I love that if an appliance breaks down, my landlord replaces it. I love that if I want to move, I can do so with very little notice, because I don’t have to sell a house first.

    There are many great reasons to own a home, and there are many great reasons to rent. But the benefits of homeownership aren’t financial.


    Final Thoughts


    We’ve all heard the financial myth that renting is throwing away money. And while there are many great reasons to own a home, thinking that you’re saving money isn’t one of them. In fact, as we figured about above, you actually throw away a lot more money by owning a home.

    The good news is that you can make the right choice for yourself, regardless of what your parents or society told you.


  • How to Start Investing as a Millennial

    How to Start Investing as a Millennial


    Are you a millennial? Then we need to talk about why you should be investing and how you can start today.

    Millennials are those born between the early-1980s and mid-1990s. Made up of about 83 million people, our generation is the best-educated and most diverse, but we’ve gotten a tumultuous start to our financial adulthood.

    Many millennials entered the job market during and immediately after the 2007-2008 financial crisis. In other words, we got off to a rough start.

    Because of that, it should come as no surprise that millennials are a bit leery of putting their money into the stock market. Data shows that more than two-thirds of millennials have nothing invested for retirement. 

    It’s time for us to fix that. In this article, I’m sharing a few simple steps to help you start investing as a millennial.


    How to Start Investing as a Millennial


    Why you need to be investing


    The first question you might be asking yourself is why you need to invest. After all, isn’t investing risky?

    Investing is the most effective way to build wealth and help your money to grow for the future. It’s a way of putting your money to work to make passive income so that you aren’t relying on trading time for money. 

    Another important reason to invest is that without doing so, most people would never be able to retire. It’s only because of compound interest that invested money grows large enough for people to retire. 

    Finally, investing helps protect your money from inflation. Many people feel safest with their money in a savings account. But because of inflation, money in a savings account is losing its value every year.

    The Federal Reserve has a target inflation date of 2% each year. And right now, you’ll be lucky to find a high-yield savings account that pays that much. As a result, your money becomes less valuable each year.

    But what happens when you invest that money? According to the Securities and Exchange Commission, the stock market has an average annual return of 10%. Not only are you protected from inflation, but your money is actively growing each year.

    How compound interest works

    The reason investing is so effective is because of the miracle of compound interest. In other words, your money makes money. Then, the money you made also begins to make money.

    Let’s look at a quick example:

    Let’s say you were to save $250 per month each year from ages 25 to 65. By the time you retire, you would have $120,000 by the time you retire.

    But what if you put that same $250 per month into the stock market with a 10% return? You’d retire with about $1.34 million. So you can see how important compound interest is.

    To figure out how much you could have in the future by investing in the stock market, you can use a compound interest calculator.


    Investing vs. trading


    One of the biggest misconceptions I hear from millennials is that they hear they should be investing, and they think that means opening a brokerage account and buying individual stocks. So before we dive in any further, I want to clarify what I mean when I say investing.

    Trading generally refers to buying short-term investments with the intention of selling them after a short time for a profit. Traders generally try to time the market.

    For many people, day trading is a full-time job. It takes an incredible amount of research and understanding of the stock market, and most people are still ultimately unsuccessful. Unless you have the time and understanding to do it properly, I would avoid trading.

    Investing, on the other hand, is a long-term strategy. It involves buying and holding investments over many years for the purpose of growing wealth. Investing is less about timing the market and more about time in the market. 


    Investing for retirement


    The most important type of investing that everyone should start with is investing for retirement. In fact, you may already be investing without realizing it, since the first place many people start investing is in their employer’s 401(k) plan.

    If your employer offers a 401(k) match, make sure you’re investing at least enough to get the match. If you have more room in your budget, you can increase your contributions even more.

    Outside of an employer 401(k), another great way to invest is through an individual retirement account (IRA). This option offers more flexibility and a way of diversifying your tax advantages.

    There are also plenty of options to save for retirement when you’re self-employed, including a SEP IRA and Solo 401(k).

    Not sure how much you should be investing for retirement? NerdWallet’s retirement calculator is my favorite way of figuring out much to set aside each month to live comfortably during retirement.


    Investing for financial goals


    Your first priority should be investing enough to reach your retirement goals. But if you’re doing that and still have room in your budget, you might consider investing for other financial goals as well.

    As a general rule of thumb, you shouldn’t invest any money that you plan to need within the next five years. The stock market can be volatile, and when you invest your savings, you risk seeing your portfolio’s value decrease substantially right before you need it. For goals less than five years out, you can put your money into a high-yield savings account earn a bit extra.

    So what does this look like in practice?

    Let’s say you’re saving for a home you plan to purchase in about three years. The best place to save that money is in a savings account. But that dream vacation home you plan to purchase in 10+ years? Feel free to save for that in a brokerage account.


    Investing while paying off debt


    Many of the people I work with are in the process of paying off debt. And many find themselves wondering whether they should be investing while they’re paying off debt.

    There’s a little more that goes into it, but the short answer is: Yes!

    No matter what, I always recommend investing at least enough to get any 401(k) match your employers. Once you’re doing that, your next priority should be to pay off any high-interest debt such as credit cards or personal loans.

    Once you’re left with only low-interest debt like student loans, you can split your money between investing and paying off debt. Yes, the debt is important. And yes, there’s a huge emotional burden that comes with carrying debt.

    But ultimately, the return you can expect to get in the stock market is higher than the interest rate you’re paying on your debt. And the more time your money has to grow in the market, the better off you’ll be during retirement.

    When it comes to investing for other goals beyond retirement, that really comes down to what you’re comfortable with. Some people are more worried about getting their debt paid off as quickly as possible, while others are more focused on building wealth.


    Determining your asset allocation


    One of the biggest questions people have when it comes to investing is what they should actually invest in. 

    The first thing to know about asset allocation is that you should be diversifying your portfolio. In other words, don’t put all your eggs in one basket.

    First, you can across asset classes, meaning you put your money into a variety of different assets. For example, rather than just investing in stocks, you would also invest in bonds and other securities.

    You should also diversify within asset classes. For example, rather than buying stock in just one company, you’d buy stock in many companies across various industries.

    The idea of choosing your investments might be overwhelming, there are tools to make that job easier. Index funds, mutual funds, and ETFs are investment vehicles that hold many different assets. When you invest in the fund, you’re investing in every security in the fund.


    Choosing the right investing platform


    Another important decision you’ll have to make is the investing platform you use. If you invest through your company’s 401(k), you won’t have to worry about this. But if you’re investing in an IRA or a taxable brokerage account, you’ll have to decide which type of account is right for you. 

    There are two primary options to choose from:

    • Traditional brokerage firm: With a traditional brokerage firm, you’re responsible for choosing your own investments. This option is ideal for those who want to be hands-on investors. Popular brokerage firms include Vanguard, Fidelity, and Schwab.
    • Robo-advisor: For those who don’t want to choose their own investors, a robo-advisor is a great alternative. You answer a few simple questions about your goals and risk tolerance. Then the robo-advisor chooses your investments for you. My favorite robo-advisor is Betterment.


    Final Thoughts


    For many millennials, the idea of investing feels overwhelming. People who are new to the investing game consider it to be too risky, often compared to gambling.

    But long-term investing and gambling couldn’t be more different. Additionally, investing is one of the most effective ways to build wealth and financially prepare for the future.


  • How to Stay Motivated to Pay Off Debt

    How to Stay Motivated to Pay Off Debt


    When my husband and I got married, we had six figures of student loan debt. And unfortunately, we definitely aren’t alone.

    The average student loan balance is nearly $38,000. And when you throw in credit cards, car loans, and other debts, most people are paying off debt the majority of their adult lives.

    I know as well as anyone how easy it is to lose motivation when you’re paying off debt. I’ve worked hard over the past couple of years to find strategies to keep my head in the game.

    In this article, you’ll learn 8 tips to help you stay motivated while paying off your debt.


    How to Stay Motivated to Pay Off Debt


    Have a debt payoff plan in place


    One of the most common problems people run into when paying off debt is that they simply make their minimum payments every month. Either that, or they pay a little extra on each debt, but still barely make progress on any of them.

    They don’t look at their balances altogether, and they don’t set a strategic debt payoff plan.

    The most important first step to tackling your debt is crafting a debt payoff plan. The two most popular are:

    • Debt snowball: Prioritize the smallest debt, putting all extra money there while making the minimum payment on your other debts.
    • Debt avalanche: Prioritize the debt with the highest interest rate, putting all extra money there while making the minimum payment on your other debts.

    I prefer the debt avalanche because you end up saving the most money over the long run. But the debt snowball often results in small and quick wins, which helps keep people motivated. At the end of the day, the best debt payoff plan is the one you’ll stick it.

    Once you have a debt payoff plan in place, you’ll start seeing progress on your payoff and start to see the end in sight. is hands-down my favorite tool to create a debt payoff plan. Just enter your debts, and the tool will help you prioritize and tell you how long it will take you to pay them off. The best part is that it’s a free tool.


    Create helpful habits


    Motivation is great to help you jumpstart your debt payoff plan, but unfortunately, it’s not always enough to stick with it. That’s where habits come in.

    Your habits will keep you moving on your debt payoff plan when you aren’t feeling motivated. Helpful habits to help you pay off debt include tracking your spending, using a budgeting app, and schedule weekly or monthly money dates with yourself and/or your partner.

    The book Atomic Habits by James Clear is the best book to learn about habits and how to create healthy, helpful habits.


    Break it down into small, manageable steps


    When you’re paying off a lot of debt, it can feel overwhelming to look at the big number all the time. Instead, it can be helpful to break it down into small, manageable steps.

    I like to focus on one debt at a time. I make the minimum monthly payment on every debt, except the one with the highest interest rate. That highest-interest debt gets all of my attention.

    All of my extra money goes toward that one debt, and I regularly calculate how many months before I can expect to pay it off.

    Breaking it down into small pieces helps to keep me motivated, because the end for that one debt is in sight, even if my final debt-free date isn’t.


    Create a visual progress tracker


    Visually tracking your debt payoff can be a great way to keep you motivated during your debt payoff journey. You’ll be able to see your progress first-hand feel excited each time you get a bit closer.

    There are many printable debt trackers available for free online. When we started paying off debt, we just used the whiteboard in our living room to create a visual representation of our debt.


    Make it automatic


    No matter how motivated you are when you start, there will absolutely be months where you don’t feel like making those extra debt payments. You’ll find other things you’d rather spend that money on, and it’s super easy to talk yourself out of prioritizing your debt.

    To plan ahead for those months, I recommend setting up automatic debt payments. Instead of creating an automatic payment for the minimum payment amount, set it up for the amount you actually want to put toward your debt to pay it off faster.

    Read: 6 Easy Ways to Automate Your Finances


    Find your community


    Paying off a huge amount of debt can feel incredibly lonely and isolating. But the reality is that there are millions of people going through exactly what you are.

    One of the best ways to stay motivated while paying off your debt is to find a community of people to share your journey with.

    Whether it’s a Facebook group or debt payoff accounts on Instagram, having people to share your journey with, vent to, and celebrate wins with will be a game-changer.


    Remember your why


    Putting extra money toward debt each month can be discouraging. Each month, I can think of things I’d rather spend that extra money on, and it makes me want to press pause on your debt-free journey.

    But then I remember why I want to be debt-free. And I picture what our life will look like when that debt is gone.

    If you’re feeling discouraged, think about what comes next. How will you feel when you aren’t in debt to companies? What goals will you save for when you don’t have money going toward debt each month?

    In those moments where you lose your motivation, remembering your why is the perfect thing to help you find it again.


    Celebrate small wins


    Just because you’re prioritizing debt payoff doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy your life. Celebrating small wins will help keep you excited while paying off your debt and will prevent you from burning out.

    Decide on a specific milestone — it could be $1,000, $5,000, or any number that makes sense for your debt payoff plan. Decide ahead of time how you’ll celebrate when you hit that milestone.

    It doesn’t have to be expensive, but please make sure it’s not something you do on a regular basis. It should be exciting and out of the ordinary, and something you only treat yourself to when you hit that milestone.


    Final Thoughts


    Paying off debt can be a long and frustrating, and it’s easy to lose progress on your way. There are plenty of steps you can take to help boost your motivation and remember why you started in the first place.


  • How to Create a Five Year Financial Plan

    How to Create a Five Year Financial Plan


    Do you know what you’ll be doing with your money five years from now?

    Chances are, no. Five years seems so far away, and it’s hard enough to figure out what you’re going to do with your money next month, let alone years from now. 

    But data consistently shows that those with a written plan are far more likely to reach their goals. And by making a plan for your future money, you can make intentional choices and have the exact future you envision.


    How to Create a Five Year Financial Plan


    Why create a five-year financial plan?


    I what you’re probably wondering: Why five years? It seems like an arbitrary amount of time, but it’s really not.

    Five years is a short enough period of time that you can reasonably set goals for that period. While you don’t have a crystal ball, you may be able to picture what you’d like your life to look like five years from now.

    Five years is also long enough that even for those bigger goals, five years could be long enough to help you save up enough money and accomplish them.

    Saving for the down payment on a home seems daunting when you decide you want to buy next year. But if you know you’ll want to buy several years down the road, you can start saving early.

    Five years seems like a long time, but it goes fast. And if you don’t make a financial plan for those five— years, they’ll pass before you know it.


    How to create a financial plan


    Identify your values

    I truly believe that the first step in any goal-setting exercise — whether it’s setting an individual goal or making a full-blown financial plan — should be identifying your values.

    Far too often, we live our lives on autopilot doing the things we think we’re “supposed to” be doing. But we haven’t taken the time to really decide whether that life actually aligns with our values.

    One of the first exercises I do with my money coaching clients is helping them to identify their most important values. From there, we can make sure their budget prioritizes those values. And then, we can set financial goals that align with them.

    So think about what you value. Maybe you value freedom, and that manifests itself in travel. Or maybe you value security, and a life well-lived would include buying a home and having a large nest egg. 

    If you’re having trouble thinking of values, you can literally just Google “list of values.” You can read through it and see what resonates with you.


    Envision your life five years from now

    As you sit down to craft your five-year financial plan, consider what your next five years will look like. Envision your life one, and then three, and then five years from now.

    Where do you live — both the location and the actual home? What do you do for work? Are you married? Do you have children? What hobbies do you do in your spare time? What kind of car are you driving? What trips are you taking?

    It might seem like you can’t possibly know what you’ll be doing five years from now. But if you really think about it, I’m guessing you can come up with a vision for what you might like to be doing.

    As you picture your life in the future, write down everything you see.


    Set specific financial goals

    Alright, you know that list you just made of what you envision for your life in the next five years? Well, it’s time to take that list and turn it into specific financial goals.

    For each thing you’d like to accomplish, write down the date you’d like to accomplish it by and how much it will cost.

    Some of these will be easy. You might know that a big goal is to become debt-free in the next few years, and you currently have $50,000 in debt.

    But some might be trickier. Maybe you think you’ll be having a wedding in a few years but have no idea how much you’ll need to save.

    No matter what your goal is, chances are you can do a little research to find out how much you can expect to spend.

    Once you have your list of goals, I want you to do one very difficult thing: prioritize them.

    I know it’s hard to look at a list of goals and decide which you want to come first. But at the end of the day, it’s easier to save for one big goal than many.

    I recommend putting them in the order you’d like to achieve them and going all-in on the biggest one. That way, instead of making little progress on many things, you can make big progress on one.

    Read: How to Set Financial Goals


    Determine specific savings targets

    Once you’ve figured out what goals you plan to save for over the next five years, it’s time to figure out how much you’ll save.

    When you sat down and identified your goals, you hopefully identified when you want to reach each goal and how much it will cost. If so, this part should be pretty easy.

    All it takes is a little math. Divide the amount you need to save for your goals by the number of months you have to save. You’ll know how much you need to save each month to make it happen.

    You might see that number and realize you could be saving even more. That’s great news because it means you can move onto the next goal that much faster.

    On the other hand, you might see the number and realize that your current list of goals isn’t exactly realistic over the next five years. That’s totally fine and pretty normal.

    In that case, you have a few options:

    1. Adjust your expectations so that your goals fit within your current saving capabilities, or
    2. Decide that you’re willing to do what it takes to reach your goals no matter what, even if it means either drastically cutting your spending or increasing your income, or
    3. Do a little of each. Adjust your goals slightly, but also reduce spending and increase your income to make sure you can reach your goals.

    It’s okay for goals to feel a little uncomfortable.

    When Brandon and I first set the goal of buying an RV and traveling full-time, I didn’t actually think we’d be able to do it. I ran the numbers dozens of times, and it just never seemed possible. But low and behold, we accomplished our goal, and we even did it ahead of schedule.

    So I guess what I’m saying is plan as much as you can and leave room for a little bit of magic.


    Stick to a budget

    Yep, we’re going to talk about the B-word. I’ve talked to so many women over the years who tell me they hate budgeting and they want a way to reach their goals.

    And yes, there are personal finance experts who will tell you they can help you reach your goals without a budget. But then they describe the spending plan they teach, and it sounds an awful lot like a budget, just with a different name.

    At the end of the day, the only way to be intentional about the amount of money leaving your bank account each month is with a budget. And when you budget, it’s easy to create a five-year financial plan because you know how much you’ll be able to save each month for the foreseeable future.

    If you don’t have a monthly budget yet and aren’t sure where to start, you can use my guide: A Step by Step Guide to Creating a Monthly Budget.


    Track your progress

    Tracking your progress is one of the most important steps to any plan, and your financial plan is no exception. After all, it’s all about follow-through. And how will you know if you’re following through if you don’t actually track your progress?

    I track my progress in a couple of ways:

    1. I sit down each week and update my budget and spending tracker to make sure I’m staying within my monthly budget. If I’m not staying on track, I can cut back as needed.
    2. I sit down each month and plan my budget for the following month and update my net worth. If I went over budget the previous month, I adjust, either by changing how much I budget for or figuring out how I can cut back in certain areas.


    Create an annual check-in

    As you make your way through your financial plan, it’s important to check in on your progress.

    And while we’ve already talked about tracking your spending and your progress on a more granular level, it’s important to check in on the bigger picture too. Sit down each year and take an inventory of where you planned to be at that time versus where you actually are.

    By scheduling an annual check-in, you can change course if things aren’t going quite the way you expected them to be.

    It might be that you check in on your financial plan and find that you’re falling behind. In that case, you can either find a way to speed up your progress or adjust your expectations.

    On the other hand, you might check in on your plan and find that you’re ahead of schedule. That’s great news! In that case, you can adjust your goals to accomplish even more in your five-year plan.


    What to include in your financial plan


    An annual and monthly budget

    A five-year financial plan seems like a huge undertaking, and it definitely is. And if you look at it as one big picture, then it’s going to be hard to make strides.

    Included in your five-year plan should be annual and monthly budgets.

    The concept of a monthly budget is pretty common. You figure out how much money you have coming in each month, and you create a plan for exactly how you’ll spend it.

    The idea of an annual budget isn’t quite as common, but it’s still an important way to make a plan for your money.

    Creating an annual budget can help you identify those less common expenses, such as your annual vehicle registration or holiday spending. I use sinking funds to save for these expenses and my annual budget to plan for them.

    Read: What Are Sinking Funds and Why Do You Need Them in Your Budget?

    An annual budget can also help you to see what’s going to be happening with your money three, six, nine, and twelve months from now.

    Here’s an example: Let’s say you’ve got a monthly car payment, but you’ll be paying off your loan in just a few months. When you use an annual budget, you’ll know ahead of time where you’ll reallocate that money each month. As a result, you have a better idea of when you’ll reach your next goal after that.

    I love planning, and helping people to craft long-term financial plans is one of my favorite things, but I also know that the foundation of every great financial plan is your budget.


    An emergency fund

    Building an emergency fund should be the first step in anyone’s financial plan. It helps prevent future financial mishaps from becoming disasters and helps set a solid foundation for the rest of your financial goals.

    There are two reasons you need emergency savings:

    • One-time emergency expenses
    • Income replacement in the event of a job loss

    There’s definitely some debate as to how much you should save in your emergency fund. Certain financial experts recommend saving just $1,000 while you’re paying off debt, but I’d strongly recommend against this.

    As a minimum, I recommend saving three months of expenses in your emergency fund. Once you’re debt-free, I’d go even further and shoot for at least six months of expenses.

    One of the reasons an emergency fund is so important is that it helps you avoid future debt.

    Imagine you didn’t have an emergency fund and had an emergency $1,000 car repair. If you put it on the credit card and it takes a few months to pay it off, you’ll pay interest, meaning your emergency costs even more. But if you had an emergency fund, you could just pay for it and be done with it.

    Read: How to Build an Emergency Fund & How Much to Save


    Debt payoff

    If you’re paying off debt, that should absolutely be a part of your five-year financial plan. Now, depending on how much debt you have, you may not plan to pay it all off in the next five years. For those with high student loan debt — which is many people these days — it’s okay to take longer if that fits your plan better.

    The first step to creating your debt payoff plan is to decide which strategy you’ll use to pay down your debt. The two most popular strategies are the debt snowball and debt avalanche.

    The debt snowball is where you prioritize your debt based on balance, paying down the smallest debts first. The debt avalanche is where you prioritize based on interest rate. You pay down the debt with the highest interest rate first.

    The other decision you’ll have to make is how much you’ll put toward debt each month. It can be tempting to pay just the minimum payments and use the money for other goals. But I highly recommend paying at least some extra to pay it down faster.

    Paying your debt off early can help you save hundreds, thousands, or even tens of thousands of dollars on interest. And if you have high-interest debt like credit cards, I think that should be your absolute priority. 

    I recommend using a tool like to help you plan your debt payoff. You can experiment with the order and see how much faster you’ll be debt-free by paying just a little extra each month.


    Financial goals

    Your financial plan should also include any other financial goals you might be saving for. In fact, this right here is why a five-year financial plan is so important. When you can anticipate the goals you’ll want to reach several years from now, you can start preparing for them now.

    When crafting your financial plan, map out when you hope to achieve each of your financial goals and how much they’ll cost. From there, you can easily figure out how much you need to save each month.

    Common financial goals include:

    • Buying a home
    • Taking a vacation
    • Going back to school
    • Starting a business

    …and many, many more.


    Major life events

    As you’re mapping out your financial goals, be sure to map out any major life events you think will come up over the next five years. Unfortunately, we often don’t start planning and saving for these until they’re upon us, and then it’s hard to catch up.

    Major life events to consider in your financial plan include getting married, starting a family, or moving to a new city.

    Even if you don’t know for a fact that one of these things will happen, you can still plan and save for them. Plenty of people start saving for a wedding long before they’re engaged or start saving for kids long before they’re pregnant.


    Retirement savings

    When you’re young, it’s easy to brush off saving for retirement, thinking you have plenty of time. This is how I felt for years, and I was incredibly lucky to have an employer that required us to contribute a certain percentage of our income to our retirement accounts each year.

    No matter your age, retirement savings should be a part of your financial plan. Your age and how much you want to have when you retire will determine how big a part of your financial plan.

    For younger people who don’t plan to retire until they’re 60s, saving for retirement is actually pretty simple.

    The Securities and Exchange Commission reports the stock market produces a return of about 10% per year. Using that number, if you start saving when you’re 25 and invest $250 per month until you’re 65, you’ll retire with more than $1.3 million.

    In some situations, you may need to save more per month to reach your retirement goals. That might be the case if you’re closer to retirement age or if you’re working toward early retirement.

    Not sure how much you need to save? The NerdWallet Retirement Calculator is one of my favorite tools to help figure it out.


    Additional income streams

    I’ve found increasing my income to be the best way to speed up my financial plan and reach my big financial goals. And the good news is, there are many ways to do this.

    Many people hope to start their own business someday. If this is you, make sure it’s a part of your financial plan. Online businesses today often quire little start-up costs, but it’s worth setting aside money either way. Luckily, you’ll ideally then see a return on that investment.

    If you aren’t interested in starting a business and simply want a way to increase your income temporarily, that’s even easier to do. 

    There are plenty of side hustles — either online or in-person — where you can earn extra money in your spare time. Once you know how much you can make each month, you can work that into your financial plan to help you reach your goals even faster.

    If you’re interested in finding additional income streams, check out my guide on how to earn more money this year.


    Final Thoughts


    Having a financial plan is essential to making sure you are where you want to be in the future. Five years is the perfect amount of time — it’s just short enough that you have an idea of what goals to save for and just long enough that you have plenty of time to save.

    Financial planning sounds a lot more complicated than it is. While you might picture sitting down with a financial planner and paying them a pretty penny to put together a plan for you, this is something you can do on your own — and for free!


  • How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others Financially

    How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others Financially


    You wanna know one of the most common complaints I hear from money coaching clients?

    “I can’t help but look at my friends and feel like they’re doing better than I am.”

    People tend to feel that their friends are making more money, don’t have as much debt, or aren’t facing the same financial hurdles they are.

    And so they spend hours stuck in comparison, feeling jealous that they don’t have as much money, or feeling less than for not being in a better place.

    All this comparison does is hold you back from reaching your goals and make you feel resentful when you don’t need to.

    Because here’s the thing: those people you’re comparing yourself to financially are comparing themselves to someone else — maybe even you.

    In this article, I’m sharing why you need to stop comparing your finances to other people’s, and how you can finally do that.


    How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others Financially


    Why you need to stop comparing your finances to other people’s


    You’re only seeing the highlight reel


    When was the last time you posted something on social media about your financial struggles, the fight you had with your partner, or the bad day you had at work?

    I’m guessing it’s not likely. People don’t tend to share the hard stuff on their social media pages. Instead, they share the highlight reels. They share their absolute best days and favorite moments.

    And from those moments, you have no idea what someone’s life really looks like.

    It’s easy to look at someone who just went on your dream vacation and feel jealous that they could afford it and you can’t. But what you might not see is that they put the whole thing on a credit card and it will take them years to pay it off.

    This is just one example, but it shows you that what someone posts on social media isn’t really a good indication of what’s going on behind the scenes.      


    Comparison slows your own progress


    Have you ever noticed how all-consuming it can be to compare yourself to others?

    You notice that your peers aren’t struggling with the same student loan debt you are, and you spend all of your time thinking about it.

    Meanwhile, you aren’t spending time thinking about how to achieve your goals faster. So instead of helping get you to where you want to be, that comparison trap actually holds you back.

    Unless you have a very good reason for comparison (i.e. comparing your salary to others in your industry to make sure you’re being fairly compensated), it’s actually hurting you.


    Comparison leads to more spending


    Comparing your finances to other people’s can get really expensive really quick.

    A survey from 2019 found that 48% of millennials had spent money they didn’t have and gone into debt to keep up with their friends.

    What’s crazy is that we’re going into debt to keep up with other people who are going into debt to keep up with us.

    Maybe you look at your friend and think, “I’m not sure I can afford this girl’s trip, but she makes about the same amount I do. So I guess if she can afford it, so can I.”

    And she’s looking back at you and thinking the exact. same. Thing.

    Next time a friend suggests something that’s a little outside of your price range, ask if you can do a budget alternative instead. Instead of hitting happy hour for wine and charcuterie, ask if you can do a DIY version at your place. I’m willing to bet that other people would rather do the same thing.


    Your priorities aren’t the same as everyone else’s


    It’s easy to feel jealous or resentful that you can’t afford the same things as everyone else. But have you ever really stopped to ask yourself if you want those same things?

    I used to feel jealous about people who could splurge on makeup and clothing. And at times I went over budget to have them for myself.

    But when I really thought about it, I realized that wasn’t me. I wear basically the same outfit every day, and I rarely wear makeup. When I do, the drugstore stuff is just fine.

    Another thing to consider is that their priority might be short-term satisfaction, while yours is long-term security and happiness.

    Sure, you could afford to go on more vacations or have a more expensive car payment. But at what cost?

    Spending more money on those things might hold you back from your long-term goals of retiring early, buying your dream home, or starting a business.


    Everyone has their own battles


    Just like you don’t really know what the ins and outs of someone else’s finances really look like, you don’t know what the rest of their life looks like either.

    Everyone has their own battles. Yours might be financial, and someone else’s may not.

    But the person you’re feeling jealous of might be facing something that you have no idea about, whether it’s an unhappy relationship, an illness in the family, or something else altogether. In fact, they might be looking at your life and feeling jealous because you aren’t dealing with the same struggle.


    How to stop comparing your finances


    It’s not easy to stop comparing yourself to others, especially when we see so much of other people’s lives on social media. But with a little work and practice, you can change your mindset and stop falling into that comparison trap.


    Put your goals front and center


    For every minute you spend thinking about someone else’s financial situation, that’s one less minute you spend thinking about your own. And the time you don’t spend thinking about your own goals just pushes back the date of when you’ll finally reach them.

    If you want to change your financial situation, put your goals front and center. You can do this by:

    • Sitting down and setting specific and actionable goals
    • Write your goals down somewhere that you’ll see them each day
    • Carve out time in your calendar every week to work on your goals
    • When your mind starts to focus on other people’s finances, sit down and do something to move you one step closer to your goals, even if it’s as simple as updating your budget


    Change your mindset around money


    How does money make you feel?

    For many people, the answer is anxious, angry, stressed, resentful, depressed, and so much more. And it’s easy to feel that way when you think about all the things going wrong, or all the financial struggles holding you back.

    But what if you changed the way you thought about money?

    For example, let’s say you’re working on paying off debt. And each month when you make that debt payment, you feel all sorts of negative feelings.

    You feel angry at past you for getting into debt in the first place. You feel resentful at the system where college is so expensive and people have to go into debt to get a degree. You feel embarrassed for letting your debt situation get so out of control.

    But what if you decided to think something else?

    Rather than focusing on the things your debt doesn’t allow you to do, think about the things it did. Instead of focusing on how your student loan payment sucks, think about how that debt allowed you to attend your dream school that you never would have been able to pay for with cash.

    Think about how your credit card debt, while perhaps ill-advised, allowed you to go on the best vacation you’ve ever had or leave an abusive relationship.

    Think about how your last car broke down unexpectedly, and you’re so grateful you were able to get a loan to buy a new one.

    It’s not going to be easy to change these thoughts. You’re actually going to have to work at it. But if you continue to remind yourself of these thoughts each time the negative ones come up, you can finally start to change your mindset around money.


    Practice gratitude for what you have


    Listen, I know that just about every self-improvement article you’ll ever read is going to tell you to practice gratitude, but there’s a good reason for that.

    Especially when it comes to your finances, showing gratitude for the things you already have is one of the best ways to reduce comparison and feel really happy with where you are.

    It’s easy to feel frustrated or resentful about the six-figures of student loan debt my husband and I had when we got married. And it’s really easy to look at the people in our lives who aren’t struggling with the same thing and feel a bit jealous.

    But when I really pay attention to the great things in my life, I’m not jealous at all.

    I have an amazing husband, a dog who we love, and we get to travel the country in our RV. Debt or no debt, I wouldn’t trade my life for anyone else’s.


    Reduce your time spent on social media


    I find that social media is one of the biggest culprits when it comes to comparison.

    When you see others posting their highlight reels online, it’s easy to wonder why they seem to be doing better than you. Maybe they’ve gone on an amazing trip, have a wardrobe that’s out of your price range, or are buying a house when you can barely afford your student loan bill.

    If you didn’t see those things on social media, you wouldn’t know most of them are happening. I’m all for keeping up with close friends and family on social media. But do you really need to know what the people you went to high school with are spending their money on?

    I certainly don’t expect you to fully give up social media. But you can either unfriend or unfollow people who are just causing you to compare, or you can simply spend less time on social media. It could do wonders for your mental health.


    Final Thoughts


    Comparison is one of the worst feelings because it constantly makes you feel as if you’re doing something wrong or aren’t enough. But it’s not true.

    By overcoming that comparison trap, you’ll have more time and energy to focus on your own finances, and you’ll reach your goals that much faster.


  • 6 Easy Ways to Automate Your Finances

    6 Easy Ways to Automate Your Finances


    Have you ever added up how much time you spend each month on your finances?

    Or, separate from the time you spend working on your finances, how much time you spend stressing about your finances?

    When I first decided to change my financial situation, it felt like hours per week. Hours per week, and I never seemed to make any progress.

    And the more time I spend without progress, the more the stress would eat into every other part of my life.

    Finally, I found one trick that saved me time, reduced my stress, and finally started making a difference: automating my finances.

    Money doesn’t have to be hard. In fact, sometimes the easiest solution is also the one that makes the biggest difference in your finances.

    In this article, I’m sharing why it’s important to automate your finances and six easy ways to get started.


    6 Easy Ways to Automate Your Finances


    Why it’s important to automate your finances


    I truly believe that automating your finances is one of the simplest and most effective ways to take your finances to the next level.

    There are a few reasons I think it’s the best way to go:

    1. Automating your finances saves you time. Chances are, you spend more time on your finances each month than you think. There’s paying bills, checking your account to see how much money you have left, and so much more. The more you automate, the more time you save.
    2. Automating your finances saves you money. Have you ever forgotten to pay a bill on time and gotten stuck with a late payment penalty? Or maybe you didn’t realize how much money you had spent, and so your bank stuck you with an overdraft fee? You can avoid these things when you automate your finances.
    3. Automating your finances saves your credit. Anytime you miss a monthly payment, it could have a negative impact on your credit score. And your credit score is what determines if you can get loans and credit cards to help with future goals.
    4. Automating your finances helps you reach goals you may otherwise not. I didn’t start really saving money for my goals until I automated my finances. Whether you’re saving for a house, paying off debt, or something else, automating your finances will help you get there.
    5. Automating your finances reduces stress. For some people, managing their money is a huge source of stress. Imagine if you could eliminate the things that bring you so much stress, like paying bills each month or worrying about where your money went?


    How to automate your finances


    Ready to start automating your finances? Here are the 6 easy ways anyone can automate. The best part is that each only takes a few minutes to set up, but altogether, they’ll save you tons of time each month.


    1. Set up automatic bill pay

    If you’re brand new to automating your finances, setting up automatic bill pay is the perfect place to start. It only takes a few minutes to set up and it will save you time each and every month.

    I think just about every company allows its customers to set up automatic payments at this point. Some even offer a discount when you use autopay.

    Using automatic bill pay has two big benefits. First, it saves you time each month, since you don’t have to sit down and manually pay each of your bills.

    The other benefit is that it could potentially save you money and save your credit score.

    Things fall through the cracks — it happens to everyone! And unfortunately, sometimes the thing that falls through the cracks is paying a bill on time.

    When you’re late on a bill, you’re often stuck with a late payment penalty and a ding on your credit report. By setting up autopay, you never have to worry about that again.


    2. Automate your savings

    I’m not kidding when I say that automating my savings was one of the most important changes I made for my finances.

    Every month, I’d tell myself that I would save whatever money I had left at the end of the month. But somehow, there was never anything left when the end of the month rolled around.

    I finally set up an automatic transfer from my checking account to my savings account the day after I got paid each month. I never had to think about it, and I honestly barely noticed having less money in my checking account, and yet my savings was growing.

    You can use these automatic transfers for so many purposes.

    If you’re still saving up your emergency fund, you can transfer money to a high-yield savings account each month.

    Once you’ve got your emergency savings fully funded, you can use your automatic transfers to save for other big goals.


    Read: How to Build Your Emergency Fund & How Much to Save


    3. Track your spending with a budget app

    Many people I talk to find the idea of tracking every expense exhausting. For those people, I recommend signing up for a budgeting app that does it for you.

    With most budgeting apps, you can connect your budget to your bank accounts and credit cards, and it automatically pulls in all of your spending. You can also set it up to automatically categorize your spending, so it’s easy to see how much you’ve spent in each category.

    I wrote a few blog posts to help you find the perfect budgeting app for you:


    4. Set up extra debt payments

    If you’re working on paying off high amounts of debt, you know how long it can take. And the best way to speed up is to make extra debt payments using either the debt snowball or debt avalanche

    When you set up an automatic payment, you’re committing to putting extra money toward your debt each month. And that commitment is what’s going to get you debt-free ahead of schedule.

    You can do this two ways. First, you can set up an extra payment each month. Or you can just automate your normal monthly payment, but schedule a payment that’s larger than your minimum required amount.


    5. Automate retirement contributions

    I’m almost certain that if my first employer after college hadn’t required me to put 7% of my paycheck into a retirement account each month, I wouldn’t have saved for retirement at all. 

    Honestly, it just seemed so far away, and like I had years before I had to worry about it.

    Now, almost a decade later, I can’t tell you how grateful I am that my employer required automatic retirement contributions.

    If your employer offers a 401(k) plan, by far the easiest way to automate your retirement savings is to have your employer take money out pre-tax and put it into your account. If you’re lucky, they might even offer to match a portion of it.

    If your employer doesn’t offer a retirement plan — or you’re self-employed so you are your employer — you’ve still got plenty of options.

    For those with an employer who doesn’t offer a 401(k), I recommend setting up an individual retirement account (IRA) and setting up automatic monthly transfers.

    If you’re self-employed, even if you just run the business alongside your full-time job, you’ve got even more options. I wrote an entire guide about how to save for retirement when you’re self-employed.

    Not sure how much to save? There are plenty of online retirement calculators to figure out how much you should save each month to have enough for retirement — I recommend NerdWallet’s calculator.


    6. Set up free credit monitoring

    Your credit score is one of the most important numbers in your overall financial picture. And anything that goes onto your credit report is likely to impact that score in either a positive or negative way.

    Far too many people don’t find out about negative marks on their credit report until they apply for a loan and the bank breaks the bad news to them.

    There are plenty of services — some of them even free — that automatically monitor your credit for you. I use Credit Karma, and one of my credit cards also offers this service for free for having their credit card.

    If a negative mark shows up, you’ll know about it right away.


    Read: 7 Hacks to Boost Your Credit Score Quickly


    Final Thoughts


    Automating your finances is one of the simplest, and yet most effective ways, to take your finances to the next level. You can start slow, with setting up automatic bill pay.

    Once you’ve checked off everything on this list, you’ll notice how much less time you spend worrying about your finances each month.


  • 12 Things to Do With Your Tax Return (and 3 to Avoid)


    Tax season is always bittersweet. You dread collecting all of your tax forms and going through the actual labor of preparing your tax return. But it often ends with a tax return, which is something to get excited about.

    I remember how excited I was to get my tax returns in my early twenties. But looking back, I couldn’t tell you a single thing I did with that money. My guess is that I squandered most of it on unplanned and unneeded expenses.

    In retrospect, I really wish I’d used that money more wisely, perhaps to pay off debt or fund one of my big goals.

    In this article, I’m sharing 12 ways to use your tax return wisely, as well as three things to avoid doing with that money.


    12 Things to Do With Your Tax Return

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    1. Build your emergency fund

    If you don’t currently have an emergency fund, building one should be your first priority when you get a tax return.

    People often underestimate just how important an emergency fund is. Almost 25% of Americans have no emergency savings at all, and only 41% of Americans would be able to cover a $1,000 emergency with savings.

    Unfortunately, these expenses come up. You never know when your car will break down or you’ll have an unexpected medical bill. And without an emergency fund, people usually have to resort to debt.

    The pandemic also showed us just how important an emergency fund is. Millions of Americans lost their jobs, without savings to fall back on.

    Not sure how much to save? I generally recommend saving at least one month of expenses while paying off debt and at least 3-6 months of expenses once you’re debt free.


    Read: How to Build an Emergency Fund & How Much to Save


    2. Pay off debt

    Paying off debt can feel impossible at times. You make your monthly payments, but somehow never seem to make any progress.

    Extra income injections like tax returns are an excellent way to pay down your debt faster. If you have high-interest debt like credit cards or personal loans, that’s a great place to start. If you don’t have high-interest debt, you can put your tax return toward student loans, a car loan, or your mortgage.

    Depending on how big your tax return is, you might be able to make a big dent in your balance. And even if it’s just a small amount, it’ll reduce the amount you pay in interest over the long-run and help you become debt free more quickly.


    Read: Debt Snowball vs. Debt Avalanche: Which Debt Payoff Strategy is Right for You?


    3. Fund a financial goal

    Your tax return can be a great way to pay for a financial goal you’ve been dreaming of, like a big vacation or home renovations.

    Your tax return can help you reach your goals even faster. And if you don’t have much wiggle room in your budget, your tax return might be just what you need to reach that goal that didn’t seem possible.


    Read: The Best Money Goals to Set in 2021


    4. Get one month ahead in your budget

    Most people spend their money as (or even before) they earn it. For example, many people struggle to balance the timing of their bills with their paychecks to make sure they have enough in their bank account. Others use their credit card for everything and then pay it off the next time they get paid.

    While this might work for some people, it often means spending money you don’t have. Plus, you’re living paycheck to paycheck, and a single late paycheck could result in having to pay your bills late.

    The best solution to this is to get one month ahead in your budget. So instead of using your paycheck for this month to pay this month’s bills, you’ll actually use it to pay next month’s bills. 

    Here’s a full guide to help you get one month ahead on your budget.


    5. Start a business

    Starting a business was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. It provided extra income while I was working at my government job. And ultimately, I made enough money to quit my job and run my business full time.

    I was pretty lucky in that my business required almost no start-up costs. I paid for the cost of a website domain and a few other small things, and I was ready to go.

    But looking back, there’s a lot more I could have done in terms of education and coaching. And many people start businesses that require more start-up costs. 

    If you’ve been thinking about starting a business, commit to using your tax return this year to get it up and running. You won’t regret it!


    6. Advance your career

    There are so many opportunities today to advance your career through continuing education, training, or additional certifications. Unfortunately, those things cost money and many employers can’t foot the bill.

    If you’re getting a tax return this year and don’t have other plans for it, consider what steps you could take to further your career or help you get the credentials you need to change careers. 


    7. Fund an HSA

    Healthcare costs have been increasing steadily over the years, and many families just can’t cover them.

    Unfortunately, medical bills have become the primary reason for bankruptcies. And it’s not just people without health insurance. High deductibles and poor coverage mean that many people with health insurance still end up with huge out-of-pocket costs. 

    Luckily, there’s a great option to help you save for future medical expenses.

    A health saving account (HSA) is available to anyone with a high-deductible health plan. It has triple tax advantages. First, contributions are tax-deductible. Next, you can invest the money and it grows tax-free. Finally, you can spend the money tax-free on qualified medical expenses.

    If you have a high-deductible health plan, I highly recommend opening an HSA!


    8. Donate to a charity

    One of the great things about tax returns is that it’s often money you forget you have coming. You aren’t counting on it to pay any bills, meaning it’s just a bonus.

    If you aren’t relying on your tax returns to help pay your bills, build an emergency fund, or pay off debt, I encourage you to consider donating at least part of it to charity.

    There are so many people struggling in our communities, and it’s only become worse since the pandemic began. Chances are there are many people in your area struggling to pay their rent or buy groceries.

    There are a lot of great organizations out there helping people to make ends meet and keep food on the table. And let’s not forget the organizations helping save animals, research prevalent diseases, and fight climate change. Whatever it is you’re passionate about, there’s an organization working on it that could use your help.


    9. Contribute to your retirement account

    Many people underestimate the importance of saving for retirement. When it’s decades away, it’s hard to see it as an immediate need. But the thing is, your money has more time to grow the earlier you start saving!

    If you aren’t currently saving for retirement, consider starting now. And even if you’re already contributing to a 401(k) through your employer, you can set up an individual retirement account to help you save even more.


    10. Save for college

    College costs have grown like crazy. In 2021, the average student at a four-year in-state public university spends more than $25,000 per year. And if you’ve got small kids at home, costs might be even higher by the time they head off to college.

    There are several good options to help to save for your child’s college education. First, a 529 plan is a tax-advantaged account specifically designed to help you save and invest for college. Another option is a custodial account, which parents can open on behalf of their children to save and invest.


    11. Invest through a taxable investment account

    If you already have a fully-funded emergency fund, have paid off your debt, and contribute regularly to a retirement account, you might consider using your tax return to invest through a taxable brokerage account.

    I don’t recommend doing this until you’ve got your financial house in order otherwise and are already on track to hit your retirement goals. But if you can check those boxes, investing can be a great way to grow your wealth and help you to reach other financial goals.

    Not sure how to get started? My current favorite investing book is Broke Millennial Takes on Investing by Erin Lowry.


    12. Adjust your withholdings

    Some people love getting a huge refund every year. They see it as free money they can spend or use to fund their goals.

    But here’s the thing — it’s not free money. It’s money you worked hard for that was unnecessarily taken out of your paycheck. Money that could have earned interest in a savings account or that you could have used to cover expenses throughout the year.

    Unless you’re dead set on receiving a refund each year, consider adjusting your withholdings to have less money taken out of your checks. Just make sure you have a plan for that money so you aren’t mindlessly spending it throughout the year. 


    What not to do with your tax return


    1. Use it to go further into debt

    Here’s an all-too-common scenario: Someone gets a tax return and decides to use it to upgrade their computer or another high-value item. Their tax return isn’t big enough to cover the cost of the entire computer, so they put the rest on a credit card.

    Now you’ve taken your tax return and somehow used it to get into even more debt.

    I’m all for using your tax return to put toward big items you’ve been saving for. Just make sure you have enough to buy them outright rather than going into debt to buy them. The only exceptions to this would be using your tax return to help fund a car or house downpayment. 


    2. Spend it on unplanned purchases

    When I was in my early twenties, I would be so excited every year when I received my tax return. I though of it as free money that I could spend on whatever I wanted.

    But instead of intentionally putting it toward my financial goals, I’d spend it mindlessly on clothing, take out, and other things I didn’t plan for and didn’t really need.

    It’s okay to spend your tax return on whatever is important to you, just be intentional about it and have a plan for that money!


    3. Put it in a low-interest savings or checking account

    Whatever you do, be intentional about what you do with your tax return. Without a plan, that money could end up sitting in a traditional check or savings account, not earning you anything. If you want to keep the money in savings, transfer it to a high-yield savings account so you can earn more interest than you would through your traditional bank savings account.


    Final Thoughts


    I know how exciting it can be to get a tax return and think of all the things you can spend it on. I also remember the analysis paralysis I felt when I wasn’t sure what the best use of that money was. I hope this post helps you decide how best to use your tax return this year!


  • Financial Coach vs. Financial Advisor: What’s the Difference?

    Financial Coach vs. Financial Advisor: What’s the Difference?


    Hiring a financial professional is one of the best ways to turn your financial situation around and reach all of your biggest money goals. But many people tell me that they’ve procrastinated hiring someone because they aren’t sure what type of professional to work with.

    They’ve been DIYing their finances with much success, and they know they’re ready to take things to the next level. But they simply get confused by all the different titles.

    Financial coaches and financial advisors are two of the most popular professionals someone can hire to help them with their finances. A financial coach (aka money coach) is perfect for helping you get better with money and meet your short-term goals, while a financial advisor helps people plan for the future and manage their investments.

    In this post, I’ll explain the difference between a financial coach and a financial advisor and help you decide which is right for you.


    Financial Coach vs. Financial Advisor: What’s the Difference?


    What is a financial coach?


    Coaching is a form of development designed to help a client achieve a particular goal under the guidance of someone else (aka a coach).

    In many cases, a coach is there to help someone meet a particular athletic or professional goal. In the case of money coaching, a coach helps clients to meet a specific financial goal, in large part by changing their financial behaviors.

    A money coach helps clients by:

    • Identifying specific financial goals
    • Creating a plan to help you reach those goals
    • Providing education, accountability, and support along the way

    But financial coaching is really about so much more than a single financial goal. As a money coach, I help clients to address every part of managing their finances. I work with clients to:

    Think of a money coach as a personal trainer for your finances. Just like a personal trainer helps you get your body in shape, a money coach helps you get your finances in shape.


    What is a financial advisor?


    A financial advisor is typically someone who helps clients to build wealth and prepare for the long-term future. Unlike financial coaches, financial advisors don’t focus as much on the day-to-day finances. Instead, they help clients set and meet their long-term goals.

    Financial advisors also often help their clients with:

    • Investment management
    • Retirement planning
    • Tax optimization
    • Estate planning


    Should you hire a financial coach or financial advisor?


    When you’re deciding which type of financial professional to work with, it’s important to think about the specific goal you want help with.

    Most people are familiar with financial advisors, so they assume that’s the type of professional they should be working with. But the reality is that most people would actually be better suited to working with a financial coach.


    When to hire a money coach

    Work with a money coach if you want to change your financial behavior and reach your financial goal. If you’re interested in creating a budget, paying off debt, and saving for a big goal in the next few years, a money coach is a perfect choice.

    You should also work with a money coach if you want someone who will provide accountability and support along the way. Financial advisors can help with a lot, but they won’t check-in to see if you’re sticking to your budget or talk you through your feelings when you’re struggling with limiting beliefs.

    Money coaches are often the precursor to financial advisors. You might work with a coach to help get your money in a place where you’re ready to work with a financial advisor.


    When to hire a financial advisor

    Work with a financial advisor if you want help reaching a long-term financial goal, and want someone who will do a lot of the work on your behalf (such as managing your investments).


    Final Thoughts


    Financial coaches and financial advisors both have so much to offer their clients, and both are an important piece of your biggest financial puzzle.

    Many people start with a money coach, and then eventually graduate to working with a financial advisor. Others work with both at the same time.


  • How to Save for Retirement When You’re Self-Employed

    How to Save for Retirement When You’re Self-Employed


    When I started my career after college, retirement was the last thing on my mind. I was 22, and it hardly seemed important. Luckily my employer (the state government) required that I contribute to my retirement account — otherwise I probably wouldn’t!

    As I learned more about finance, I began to see the importance of saving and investing early.

    By my late twenties, I was contemplating quitting my job to run my own business. One of the biggest things holding me back was the fear of being on my own for saving for retirement.

    I spent months researching, learning everything I could about the best way to save for retirement when I was self-employed.

    In this article, I’m sharing that knowledge with you and talking about how to save for retirement when you’re self-employed.


    How to Save for Retirement When You’re Self-Employed


    Saving for retirement when you’re self-employed


    The unfortunate truth is that most people aren’t saving enough for retirement. Data from the Federal Reserve shows that only about 36% of Americans think they’re on track with retirement savings.

    The numbers get even more bleak when you look at self-employed individuals. Data from Pew shows that only about 13% of solopreneurs contribute to a retirement plan. For some workers, it’s that they simply know what options are available to them. And then there’s the fact that when you’re self-employed, you don’t have an employer to contribute to your account as people with more traditional jobs often do.

    With this article, I’m hoping to help people understand what options are available to them so they can finally start preparing for retirement.


    Saving vs. investing for retirement


    Before I dive into the retirement plans for self-employed individuals, I first want to make a quick clarification.

    When we talk about retirement, we typically use the phrase “save for retirement.” In reality, you should actually be investing for retirement.

    When you invest, your money grows. And each year, your earnings compound — that means that your earnings also begin to earn money. Over time, you have more and more money earning money, meaning it grows faster and faster.

    Let’s look at a quick example. Imagine you saved $200 per month from ages 25 to 65. Instead of investing the money, you put it into a bank account where it doesn’t earn anything. By the time you’re 65, you’d have $96,000.

    But what if you put that same $200 into the stock market? Using the Securities and Exchange Commission’s estimate for average annual stock market returns, you would reach age 65 with more than $1 million.


    Retirement plans for self-employed people



    A Simplified Employee Pension (SEP) IRA is a type of retirement account specifically designed for self-employed individuals. SEP IRA contributions are tax-deferred, which means your contributions are tax-deductible, and then you pay income on the money you withdraw during retirement.

    Using a SEP IRA, entrepreneurs can contribute up to 25% of the annual income each year, with a maximum contribution of $58,000 per year.

    A SEP IRA is perfect for solopreneurs, but there are special rules for people with full-time employees. If you have a full-time employee, you must contribute to their account at the same percentage you contribute to your own.

    A SEP IRA is what I personally use for my business!



    A Savings Incentive Match Plan for Employees (SIMPLE) IRA is another type of retirement account designed for small businesses. With this type of account, you can contribute up to $13,500 per year. Like the SEP IRA, your contributions are tax-deductible. If you have employees, you must also contribute a small percentage to each of their accounts.


    Solo 401(k)

    A Solo 401(k), also known as an Individual 401(k), is another way that entrepreneurs can save for retirement. Like the SEP IRA, participants can contribute up to $58,000 per year. Contributions are also tax-deductible.

    The big difference distinction with the Solo 401(k) that separates it from the SEP IRA is that you can contribute as both the business and an individual. First, as an employee in your business, you can contribute up to $19,500 up to 100% of your income. Then your business can also contribute up to 25% of your income, with a maximum combined contribution of $58,000.


    Traditional or Roth IRA

    The three plans I described above are specifically designed for self-employed individuals. They’re the best option if you work for yourself because they have high contribution limits — especially for the SEP IRA and Solo 401(k).

    But another option is to set up a traditional or Roth IRA. These accounts are available to anyone, not just self-employed people. They also have significantly lower contribution limits at just $6,000 per year.

    The one benefit to using this type of account (perhaps alongside one of the options above) is that you can contribute to a Roth IRA. With a Roth IRA, you contribute with post-tax dollars, meaning there’s no tax deduction. But then the money grows tax-free and you don’t pay taxes on it during retirement. The other self-employed IRAs don’t have a Roth option.

    If you choose to open a Roth IRA, I would open it in addition to another self-employed retirement plan.


    Where to open your self-employed retirement plan


    Not only are there plenty of different types of self-employed retirement plans, but you also have plenty of options for where to open your plan.

    This might be confusing, so let me explain it in a simpler way. Think of your brokerage firm (meaning where you open your account) as a piece of land. The specific type of retirement plan you choose (SEP IRA, Solo 401(k), etc) is the house you put on the land. And the individual investments you invest your money into is the furniture you fill the house with.

    When choosing a brokerage firm, you have two primary options. If you want to be a hands-on investor, you can choose a traditional brokerage firm like Vanguard, Schwab, or Fidelity. You choose what to invest in, and typically pay very low fees.

    If you prefer a more hands-off approach, you can use a robo-advisor. Your robo-advisor will ask a few questions about your age, investment goals, and more and then choose your investments on your behalf. The fees are a bit higher, but it takes way less time and research on your part. My favorite robo-advisor is Betterment.


    How much to save for retirement when you’re self-employed


    One of the most challenging parts of saving for retirement is figuring out how much you need to save. After all, you have no idea how much money you’ll need or how much you’ll money will grow in the stock market.

    Luckily, there’s a took to make it easier for you.

    NerdWallet has a retirement calculator that can help you estimate how much you should save each month to retire comfortably. It uses information such as your age, current savings, desired retirement age, and spending habits to predict how much you’ll need. And using average stock market returns, it will give you an estimate of how much you should save monthly to get there.

    What I love about the calculator is that you can adjust different factors to see how that changes things. You can increase your decrease your desired retirement age or the amount you want to spend each year while retired to see how that influences the amount you need to save.


    Retirement saving tips for self-employed people


    Don’t wait until you’re debt-free

    Before I dive into the steps to take to start saving for retirement, I first want to address the question of whether you should start investing while you still have debt.

    Some personal finance leaders (okay, one personal finance leader) say that you should wait until you’re debt-free to start investing for retirement. This couldn’t be further from the truth.

    Remember above where we talked about compound interest, and how it helps to take the amount you invest and grow it into way more?

    Well, compounding only happens when your money is in the market for many years. And unfortunately, many people are paying off debt well into their 30s, 30s, 50s, and even later.

    If you want until your debt is gone to start saving, your money doesn’t have time to grow.

    As a general rule, compare the interest rate on your debt to the average return of the stock market (10%, according to the Securities and Exchange Commission). If your debt interest rate is higher than that, pay it off first. If it’s lower, you can invest at the same time because your investments will be growing faster than your debt.


    Set up automatic monthly contributions

    It’s easy to tell yourself that you’ll set aside money each month for retirement. But more often than not, something comes up that stops you from doing so. 

    The best way to make sure you’re saving consistently is to make it automatic. Decide how much you want to save each month to hit your goal, and then set up an automatic monthly contribution in that amount.

    It’ll automatically come out of your bank account each month, so you never have to think about it and you won’t have a chance to talk yourself out of it.


    Deduct your contributions

    Retirement accounts come with tax advantages that you should be aware of. Most retirement accounts have tax-deductible contributions. You can deduct everything put into the account throughout the year, which reduces your taxable income, and therefore your tax liability. 

    The one exception to this is if you’re contributing to a Roth account. In that case, you contribute with post-tax income and the tax advantage comes when you withdraw the money during retirement.


    Final Thoughts


    Retirement savings is something many people don’t really think about when they dream of leaving their jobs to become self-employed.

    When you’re just getting started, it can feel overwhelming and confusing. But it becomes a lot easier as you go. And you’ll thank yourself later when you can retire and enjoy your later years!


  • How to Use a Zero-Based Budget to Reach Your Goals

    How to Use a Zero-Based Budget to Reach Your Goals

    When I started budgeting, I thought I was doing great.

    I had plenty of money left over in my budget after accounting for all my expenses, and I thought for sure I’d be able to save a lot and pay off my debt quickly.

    But somehow, the end of the month would roll around and I never had any money leftover.

    I just couldn’t figure out where all my money was going. Sure, I’d usually eat out more than I planned or make an impulse purchase here and there to buy new clothes. But surely it wasn’t enough to spend all of it.

    Why couldn’t I save when I knew I had wiggle room in my budget?

    It turned out that the key to changing my financial situation was zero-based budgeting. Rather than spending the extra money in my budget, a zero-based budget forced me to make a plan for each dollar I earned, including putting money toward savings and debt.

    In this article, I’m sharing what a zero-based budget is and how you can use one to reach your financial goals.

    How to Use a Zero-Based Budget to Reach Your Goals

    What is zero-based budgeting?

    Zero-based budgeting is a way of planning your spending where you make a plan for each dollar. When you use a zero-based budget, you budget down to zero every month, meaning your income minus your expenses always equals zero.

    It’s important to note that budgeting every dollar doesn’t mean you spend every dollar. The purpose of zero-based budgeting is to help you pay off debt and save for goals because you include them as a line item in your budget.

    Zero-based budget advantages and disadvantages

    The biggest advantage of zero-based budgeting is that it forces you to be intentional about your spending. Rather than have a large sum of money available to spend each money, you can only spend money that you’ve actually budgeted for that purpose. 

    For anyone paying off debt or trying to reach a big financial goal, a zero-based budget is the best way to ensure you actually make progress each month.

    The biggest downside of zero-based budgeting is that it requires more time than traditional budgeting. You have to make a detailed plan for your money and then track every expense throughout the month to make sure you’re sticking to it.

    How to make a zero-based budget

    1. Write down your monthly income. If you’re a salaried employee, this should be easy. For freelancers and other workers with irregular income, start with your average monthly income.
    2. Write down your monthly expenses. Be sure to include fixed monthly expenses like rent and insurance, as well as variable spending like groceries and entertainment.
    3. Set financial goals. A zero-based budget only works if you decide ahead of time where your money is going. You should have specific financial goals to send extra money to. Your goal can be anything from saving for a big expense to paying off debt.
    4. Give every dollar a job. When you finish your budget, your income minus expenses should equal zero. This doesn’t mean you spend every dollar! It simply means that every dollar is either budgeted for spending OR budgeting for debt payoff or a financial goal.
    5. Work on getting one-month ahead. The zero-based budget is easiest to use when you’re one month ahead on your budget. In other words, you’re using last month’s income to pay this month’s bills. This is important because it ensures you know at the start of the month exactly how much you have to budget with.

    Zero-based budgeting example

    I promise that zero-based budgeting sounds more complicated than it is. I’ll use a real-life example to show you how this type of budget works in practice.

    Let’s say your monthly take-home pay is $3,500. Using a normal budget, it might look something like this:

    Expense CategoryAmount
    Student loan$250
    Cell phone$75
    Total spending$2,495

    As you can see, this budget leaves a lot of wiggle room. You’d have $1,000 left each month that you could use to build your emergency fund, fund your debt payoff plan, or save for your financial goals.

    Unfortunately, that’s not usually how it works. Often we tell ourselves that we’ll use whatever money we have left at the end of the month to reach our goals.

    But because we weren’t intentional with our spending and didn’t make a plan for that money ahead of time, we simply find other things to spend it on. And then you might be lucky to have $100 left to put toward saving, let alone the full $1,000 you should have left.

    Here’s what a zero-based budget might look like using the same income and expenses:

    Expense CategoryAmount
    Student loan$250
    Cell phone$75
    Sinking funds$250
    Debt snowball$250
    Total spending$3,500

    As you can see in the budget above, each budget is accounted for. You can’t impulse-spend a few hundred dollars on Amazon because you’ve already given that money a job.

    Zero-based budgeting with irregular income

    If you have irregular income, you might worry that zero-based budgeting won’t work for your situation. And it’s true that this budgeting style can be more difficult if you don’t know how much money you have available for the month.

    But I actually think this budget is perfect for those with irregular income.

    But here’s the catch.

    It really only works with irregular income if you get one month ahead on your budget. In that case, you can create a customized budget at the start of each month based on the money you earned the previous month.

    The best zero-based budget apps

    When it comes to planning out your zero-based budget, there are two different tools I’d recommend. You can choose the right tool for you based on your budgeting style.

    • You Need a Budget (YNAB): YNAB is hands-down my favorite budgeting app. With this app, you only budget with money you already have and you give every dollar a job. It’s the app I personally use. It completely changes the way you think about budgeting, and really teaches you to be intentional about where your money is going.
    • Spreadsheet: Before I started using YNAB, I spent years using just a simple spreadsheet in Google Drive. It’s definitely more hands-on than an app but perfect for someone really trying to turn their finances around.

    Final Thoughts

    I know how frustrating it can be to put a ton of work into a budget, only to have it fall apart halfway through the month. A zero-based budget is the best way to be intentional about where your money is going and help you reach your financial goals.